Still a virgin at 30: Old-fashioned or virtuous?

Fearing that 'A 30-year-old woman is about to die of old age', my friend swore: She absolutely cannot 'die of old age' without experiencing life.

My close friend who is almost 30 years old is eagerly looking for a boyfriend before her birthday. Wherever she goes, she asks people to introduce her to “some good match”. Not to rush into marriage, this girl also has little faith in marriage, a boyfriend for her is just to… no longer be a virgin after 30.

The story is funny, but my friend was a girl who lived a closed life, reserved with all relationships with the opposite sex. That was the result of her having to live with an old aunt who was over 50 but still a virgin.

Being a virgin at 30 is my friend's "nightmare" (illustrative photo)

Her aunt, in her youth, was also a beautiful woman, but she lived a very conservative life. She believed: "A graceful and gentle woman is what a gentleman desires", so throughout her youth, she locked herself behind a high wall, waiting for a "gentleman" to come to "seek". But her daughter was old enough to be of marriageable age, but no young man could climb over her threshold.

Then age chased away spring, and in the blink of an eye, she had become an old spinster without realizing it. At that age, suddenly having a husband, she felt a bit embarrassed. So even though she wished for it, she held back, to live a dignified life, true to the name Hanh that her parents had given her.

Usually, unmarried aunts are difficult, and my friend living with her aunt was not pleasant either. But what was more dangerous was that she was heavily influenced by her aunt's lifestyle and way of thinking.

She plans to find a partner to break her previous "oath" (illustrative photo)

No one could get her to leave the house at night, for any reason. She had almost no relationships with the opposite sex, not even the most social ones. Despite our repeated suggestions and enticements, she remained “as solid as a rock”.

Then the incident happened, that is, her aunt, 53 years old, died suddenly without warning. Her funeral was quiet with only a few people, with heartbreaking white wreaths. My friend kept staring at those wreaths, her eyes were somewhat disturbed.

Her aunt had died a virgin. It turned out that it was not as glorious as she had imagined, but rather something sad and pathetic.

After that incident, my friend locked herself in her house for a week. No matter how we tried to contact her, we couldn’t. At the end of the week, she suddenly appeared at the familiar cafe with a completely different appearance, as if she had transformed into a completely different person: bold dresses, trendy makeup, and extremely progressive thoughts.

It turned out that the death of her virgin aunt had shocked her and made her realize many things. One of those things was youth - the time to love, to be drunk and to fall into relationships that could be joyful or painful.

So my friend insisted on finding a boyfriend. Just for one reason: “A 30-year-old woman is about to get old” – she cannot “die of old age” without experiencing life!

According to Phunuonline