I love deeply but my lover is indifferent...

She told me to just love, until I couldn't anymore then stop and told me not to hope too much, sometimes she told me to break up because she knew it wouldn't go anywhere.

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My girlfriend and I are the same age, and have been in love for 3 years. We went to different schools, lived far away from each other, and only met once in a while, but our love was still strong. When she graduated and I was still working, when I suggested marriage, she said she was afraid her family would object, and didn't want her daughter to marry far away, and more than that, her father wanted to arrange a marriage. I was really in a dilemma because my girlfriend didn't dare to make a decision. Our families were 100 km apart, and I hadn't met her family yet, because she was afraid her parents would object and scold her. I had to love her in secret, not letting anyone know.

Recently she said she really didn't know what to do, just love, until she couldn't anymore then stop and told me not to hope too much, sometimes she said to break up because she knew it wouldn't go anywhere. The more I talked, the sadder I felt when the love had reached such a deep level but she was so superficial as if there were no memories. Then she herself said that she was actually afraid of marrying far away. Now I'm really in a difficult and deadlocked situation, her family might object but what does that matter when my lover doesn't have enough faith to hold hands and overcome all difficulties. Now I don't know how to convince my lover and her family. I hope you guys can share.

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