4 signs that you two will be together until old age

If you have these 4 signs, your relationship will definitely last long and be happy.

When you watch movies, it's easy to see couples who seem like they were made for each other. But in real life, it's harder to spot that perfect match.

Love and marriage expertTalia Goldstein, CEO of matchmaking service Three Day Rule, told Insiderfourmain signs that a couple is perfectly compatible.

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Share the same travel style

One of the easiest ways to find out if you're compatible with your significant other is to plan a trip together.

"You two are really compatible if you both like to travel in the same way," she said.Goldstein said.

If one of you wants to drive yourself to explore a foreign land while the other prefers to fly first class and stay in 5-star resorts, you two are clearly not going to get along.

“This reflects the lifestyle of the two people and it can lead to problems in the future,” says the psychologist.For example, different lifestyles can cause disagreements when buying a house or choosing a school for your children.

Want to pursue common interests together

Not both like each otherCouples who like the same art genres or listen to the same types of music are compatible. Compatible couples not only like the same things, they also want to do them together.

"Couples should have at least two or three things they really enjoy doing together. That's quality time they spend together," says psychologistGoldstein said.

And so, if you two enjoy hiking together, doing crossword puzzles, or watching sports games, you're truly a match made in heaven.

The relationship between the two people is balanced.

Most successful marriages that Goldstein has seen are those with perfect balance, where one person is the "star" and the other is content to be the "rock."

"I find that happy couples often fall into this category: they complement each other, with one being extroverted and the life of the party while the other is calm and supportive," the psychologist shares.

Conversely, when both are too extroverted or extremely introverted, they are easily pushed apart.“It's like the harmony between yin and yang,” she said.

Feel confident and comfortable around each other

This seems like something everyone has heard but not everyone follows - you should be with someone who makes you feel comfortable and confident about yourself. Many people end relationships simply because they feel like they can't be themselves when they're with their "other half".

"If that person makes you feel like you're the best version of yourself, you don't have to try too hard to find a topic of conversation or change to fit in with them, then that's clearly the person you should choose," she said.Goldstein expressed.

According to VNE