The life of the trio Con Gai after many years of disbandment
The beauties of the once famous Con Gai group all have their own happiness despite many incidents.
In the early 21st century, if the music stages in Ho Chi Minh City were bustling with the presence of May Trang and Mat Ngoc, in Hanoi, the group Con Gai was known the most. The name Con Gai also expressed the femininity of the group members: Xuan Nhi, Nguyet Anh and Bong Mai. The three girls were all students at the Hanoi College of Culture and Arts. The group was founded in 1998, after a performance in China with the Central Light Music and Dance Troupe at the suggestion of musician Ngoc Chau.
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Girl Trio. |
The three girls are three different beauties, charming and graceful, which made many young men's hearts flutter at that time. True to the group's name, the youthfulness exudes in each song and voice. A little gentle but still full of personality, a little cheerful but still hiding many feelings. When mentioning the group's successful songs, we must mention Con gai ngay (Girls now), Chieu xuan (Ngoc Chau), Doi mat (Quang Trung), Trang non (Ngoc Dai).
After many years, the members of the group Con Gai all have their own lives and are still good friends.
Xuan Nhi
Meeting Xuan Nhi, the first member of Con Gai, at her home, she made a strong impression with her gentle beauty even though the wife of drummer Quoc Binh now has two children.
Xuan Nhi got married in 2001 to musician Quoc Binh, when the group Con Gai already had a place in the hearts of music lovers.
Not long after that, Xuan Nhi suffered from weak vocal cords, unable to speak for a long time, and communicating with others through paper made her lose confidence. That was also the reason why she looked for another direction. Fortunately, business was very suitable for Xuan Nhi.
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Xuan Nhi - Quoc Binh couple with their children. |
Recalling the glory of the past, Xuan Nhi said, he could not imagine how many shows the band had and how much money they made. They would go to the province to perform at noon, come back at night and then go on the same journey the next day. Xuan Nhi recalled, there was always a suitcase in the corner of the house, ready to go on a performance.
The day before getting married, Xuan Nhi left for Czechoslovakia to perform with the group the next day. All the glory, joy, anger, love, and hate that the profession brought, for Xuan Nhi, that was more than enough.
Xuan Nhi said that at that time, singers like the Con Gai group earned a lot of money whether they sang at dance halls or in the provinces. Therefore, everyone was very comfortable mentally. At that time, when they heard a good song, the group thought about asking someone to arrange it for them to sing.
In 2005, Xuan Nhi's first daughter, An Binh, was born. The couple hopes that their child will always have a peaceful life in the future.
Perhaps, compared to many of her peers, Xuan Nhi is a happy and quite successful artist. However, her life and love are still the same, simple, gentle, and unpretentious. That is what makes her parents-in-law love their virtuous daughter-in-law so much.
Now, she is successful in her fashion business and keeps a happy family. “When two people love each other, they do not look at each other but look in the same direction” has become the truth of life for Xuan Nhi.
Plum Blossom
Bong Mai was born in Vinh city (Nghe An). When she was 5 years old, her whole family moved to Hanoi to make it easier for both her parents to study. With nothing but bare hands and no relatives, her family faced many difficulties. Bong Mai's childhood was also associated with the hardship and deprivation of her family.
At that time, her father, musician An Thuyen, was studying at the Hanoi Conservatory of Music, while her mother was studying stage directing. The first years were the most difficult time for her family. The whole family had to live in the dormitory of the Academy of Theatre and Cinema - where her mother was studying.
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Singer Bong Mai - daughter of the late musician An Thuyen. |
When studying, the teachers knew that Mai loved to sing, so they gave her priority to both playing the piano and singing. At that time, Bong Mai knew that singing was her greatest passion. After that, Bong Mai changed her direction to a professional music career at the age of 18. Passionate about singing, but Bong Mai's first artistic path was not music but dance. At the age of 14, her father advised her to learn dance because her hoarse voice would not be suitable for being a singer. Listening to her father, Mai passed the exam with a high score. After studying dance for two years, Mai easily switched to piano because she already had a foundation.
In 1997, while still a student at the Hanoi Military Arts College, Bong Mai was invited to join the Central Song and Dance Troupe to perform in China. A chance combination of Bong Mai, Xuan Nhi, and Nguyet Anh at that festival made many people advise them to become a band and the name Con Gai was born.
Married for the first time at the age of 24, Bong Mai followed her husband to Saigon. She was satisfied with her life as a lecturer at the Military Arts School, teaching in the morning and cooking for her husband and young daughter in the afternoon. However, in 2005, she suddenly divorced and returned to Hanoi with her daughter.
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Bong Mai is currently raising two children alone. |
Two years later, Bong Mai got married to Son Thach - a member of the Anh Em band and had a son in November 2007. But once again, happiness did not come to her, after 3 years of living together, the two decided to divorce. Bong Mai shared that although she is raising two children alone, she is still satisfied with her current life.
Bong Mai is currently an editor for VTV3 channel. She attends many large and small music events at home and abroad. Bong Mai's two children are growing up and becoming a strong spiritual support for their mother.
Nguyet Anh
After some success, the group disbanded, and Nguyet Anh moved to Saigon to pursue her solo career. However, because she had no sponsor and suffered from a vocal disease, she could not become a star, despite her beautiful face and appearance. Nguyet Anh
Some time later, Nguyet Anh went to America and suddenly appeared on stage at a famous overseas music center with a completely different appearance than when she was in Vietnam. Every time she appeared, she impressed with her sexy outfits and fiery performance, not inferior to some of her seniors such as Luu Bich, Thuy Tien, and Ho Le Thu.
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Nguyet Anh |
After many efforts, in just a short time, Nguyet Anh quickly affirmed her name in the overseas market. She became one of the most favorite singers of the youth music genre. Until now, the audience still highly appreciates Nguyet Anh for her emotional, attractive voice and increasingly attractive appearance. She owns a number of significant hits such as Mot mai anh roi xa, Giot mua thu...
Although she is quite secretive about her love life, Nguyet Anh has recently been showing off her first son on her personal page. It is known that the baby is about 7 months old and very chubby. According to a source, the baby is the result of the love between the singer of Autumn Rain and her American boyfriend. The two are not married but have been living together for quite a while.
Nguyet Anh's current life in the US is quite stable. She regularly appears in music shows. The beauty also takes advantage of her free time to tour and travel. She is still beautiful and charming.
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Nguyet Anh and her little son. |
Every time Nguyet Anh returns, the members of Con Gai gather. They still meet to chat, drink coffee together, share life and women's stories.
Apart from Xuan Nhi, the remaining members of Con Gai all experienced upheavals in their personal lives. Xuan Nhi said that through these upheavals, women still suffer more. She was glad that her friends accepted it gently, not too harshly or tiringly.
According to Zing.vn