7 things to remember for couples traveling
Making a simple schedule, dividing work reasonably, and sharing finances are things couples need to keep in mind before departure.
Traveling together is like a double-edged sword, it can either make couples love each other more and be more attached, or it can also make the two of you become more distant, even leading to conflicts. Therefore, before deciding to "hold hands and travel around the world", you two need to consider the following things to have a sweet and romantic vacation together.
Simple schedule
Usually, couples decide to travel together mostly to relax, rest and have memorable moments. Therefore, you should not be too greedy for places, just outline a simple schedule, a moderate number of destinations, not too tiring, because fatigue and problems can easily make you both unhappy, even quarrel. It is best to choose a destination that both of you love to create initial excitement.
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Traveling alone is one of the memorable experiences for new couples. |
Tell yourself in every situation: "Must be calm, must be restrained"
Traveling together will reveal many bad habits and traits of the other person that you have never known before. Many people even feel completely disillusioned because of the differences of the other person that they cannot stand such as being slow, dirty, sloppy, shopping too much, lazy...
To avoid the trip becoming a disaster when the two of you constantly scold, argue, and blame each other, you and your partner need to be calm and restrained. Sometimes, just one reproachful sentence: "It's because of you that we're in this situation" will make the remaining days of the trip unhappy. If someone "causes a sin", try to quickly forgive them.
Always make it funny
Remember, you are traveling, not on a business trip. So, always keep your mind relaxed, create humor, have fun and don't be too perfectionist. If you encounter problems such as missing the train, losing your ticket, eating bad food or being cheated... don't be too harsh or worried, consider it a happy memory, making you remember this trip forever.
Reasonable division of labor
Don't think of your significant other as a "servant" who always has to carry things, book plane tickets, run to get food, and then "serve" unreasonable "demands" during the travel days. Because moving and doing a lot of outdoor activities continuously can easily make your partner irritable and tired. Share each task with your partner in a reasonable way, such as booking plane tickets, booking hotel rooms, getting food, carrying luggage... so that no one feels uncomfortable, and increases the feeling of attachment.
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Even though you are lovers, when traveling you should be clear about money to avoid one person having to "shoulder" all the costs. |
Financial clarity
Unless your partner is comfortable financing you, you should be clear about the financial aspects of your trip, as most of the expenses are not small. Discuss with your partner frankly how the money should be divided so that neither of you feels burdened. Don’t think that your partner has to pay for your expenses. Sharing finances is also one of the core things that makes your relationship stronger.
Make friends, socialize with others
Traveling, especially traveling abroad, will make you two communicate with each other almost 24/7. Create many memories by making friends and interacting with people around you such as tourists, vendors, and locals. The trip will be more fun and memorable.
Don't forget to capture the sweet moment
Don’t forget to capture unique moments along the way. Later, when you look back, you will see that these photos are really valuable. Don’t let one person hold the camera to take a picture of the other person, then have to struggle to ask someone else to take a picture of the two of you. To solve this problem, a tripod is a good idea if you want to take pictures together anywhere.
According to VNE
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