Beautiful appearance is due to inner charm!

(Baonghean.vn)-A beautiful appearance is the result of an inner charm that radiates outward. Any blessing has a cause, so a beautiful appearance also has a cause from the heart.

Once, the President of the United States, Abraham Lincoln, interviewed a male candidate in his 40s for a government job. Although the man was very talented, the President did not hire him.

The aide saw this and asked the President why. The President said: “I don’t like the way he looks.”

The assistant did not understand so he asked again: "Is it really a person's fault that he was born unattractive?"

President Lincoln replied: “Every man after 40 is responsible for his own face!”

US President - Abraham Lincoln (Photo: Internet)

In fact, in life, when people reach middle age, their appearance will reveal their character and qualities. People with a tolerant heart will mostly have a benevolent face. People with a gentle temperament will have a gentle and holy appearance. People with a rough and rude personality will always have a fierce appearance. People with a petty heart will mostly have an ugly appearance, with tightly knitted eyebrows. Some people have a particularly youthful and beautiful appearance, then this person is definitely simple and kind. This is due to the result of cultivating one's mind and behavior, which is reflected on the face. Therefore, appearance also indicates the future destiny of that person.

But a person's appearance can be changed gradually. In particular, a beautiful appearance is due to the charm that radiates from within. Any blessing has a cause, so a beautiful appearance also has a cause from the heart.

To have a beautiful appearance in middle age, regularly cultivate the following aspects:

1. Smile often

Some people say, smiling is the way to make the most beautiful flower bloom on the face. The ancients have a saying: "A fierce hand does not hit a smiling face." A smile always touches people's hearts, makes people happy, friendly and closer to each other. But that is not the most important thing, the most important thing is that smiling not only brings beauty to others but also helps to convey information that is most easily received by others. Smiling always brings joy and happiness to others, bringing spiritual satisfaction.

Smiling is the way to make the most beautiful flower bloom on your face.

If you often smile on your face, you can convey your goodwill to everyone. This is a completely free way to create great value. This is the most convenient and magical beauty method.

2. Compliment others more

Everyone wants to hear compliments and encouragement, especially timely compliments. Scientists have conducted an experiment on water. The crystallization of water is affected by external sounds. Dr. Masaru Emoto, director of the Hado Institute (IHM organization) in Tokyo, Japan, conducted an experiment on the transformation of water under the influence of external sounds and discovered: When he played famous songs by Mozart and Beethoven and observed them under a microscope, he found that the water crystals would follow those beautiful melodies and continuously produce beautiful changes.

When pleasant words are spoken, the water crystals form beautiful patterns. When unpleasant words are spoken, the water crystals move chaotically, without order.

Therefore, speaking words of praise and encouragement to others will also vibrate that person's spirit and as a result, it will be reflected on that person's surface and vice versa. When speaking kind and good words, we ourselves will hear them more, and from there we will naturally become more beautiful.

3. Be more patient, less angry

People who are patient and rarely get angry will have a more beautiful complexion. In the book “The Buddha Speaks of the Retribution of Sins and Blessings Sutra” it says: Ugly people are the result of frequent anger and resentment. Decent and fair-skinned people, with radiant faces, soft bodies, and people who like them are the result of cultivating patience.

4. Always be grateful

A person who understands gratitude for everything, from flowers to blades of grass, from people to objects… will naturally develop a good feeling in his heart towards everything around him. That person’s heart will always bloom a flower that attracts others. A person whose heart is filled with fragrance will also be beautiful and radiant on the outside.

Always say thank you

5. The Power of Mindfulness

A person's appearance is closely related to his or her inner self. Appearance is born from the mind, so if the inside is good, the outside will be beautiful. A psychologist once said: "What a person's mood is, that person's life will be like that, and that person's destiny will be like that."

So, if you wish to become a beautiful person, then first use a good mind to treat the world. Then you will not only discover that everything becomes beautiful, but even your own appearance will become more and more beautiful.

6. Get more exposure to spiritually good people

The ancients said: “Near the ink, you will be black, near the lamp, you will be bright” which means that if you interact more with good people, people with good spirits, you will be influenced by them, and gradually you will become like them. Beauty is not just about the beauty of the outside, but more importantly, the beauty of the spirit. People with beautiful spirits will also have beautiful appearances!

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