When jealous: What is the difference between men and women?

(Baonghean.vn) - Jealousy is a human instinct. Jealousy arises from love, possessiveness and fear of loss. When jealous, people will have many emotions such as pain, loss, envy, fear, anger, ... emotions that occur at the same time and can easily make people lose control of their actions.

Some people say that women are jealous to keep their husbands and men are jealous to punish their wives. Let's see what men and women are like when they are jealous.

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When women are jealous

Women are usually more jealous than men for many reasons. Men are more fickle than women, they may be willing to have sex with another woman who likes them, pursues them, or just needs a woman who is good-looking... Women are different, they only cheat when they really have feelings for that person.

When women are jealous, they can do many things that they themselves do not think they can do. There are many different ways of being jealous depending on each person.

They can get angry when they hear their husband is cheating, suspect and investigate and then meet the third person to beat the other person to vent their anger. People who beat the other person this way are often hot-tempered, can't control themselves but are very forgiving of their husband's actions.

Some people will cry violently and then silently take their anger out on those around them, usually their husband and children, and then tend to be violent, become withdrawn, and depressed.

Once they know their husband has betrayed them, they will be filled with hatred. And they may resort to the worst method, which is to destroy everything with the thought “if I don’t have it, no one else will have it” and often brings the worst results.

Some people are jealous in a smarter way. These people are often very rational, they know how to adjust their emotions and act in the most perfect way.

What about when men are jealous?

Men's jealousy is a manifestation of possessiveness and exclusivity. This jealousy also comes from insecurity and distrust of the woman's feelings for him. He can also be jealous because his woman is too beautiful, better than him in many ways,...

Men are less jealous than women, they often have the same way of being jealous as men. They become aggressive, violent, they control and criticize women in all ways. They take revenge by having affairs with other people according to the criterion "he eats the meat, she eats the spring rolls".

Some people even try to find evidence of their wife's adultery, keep it and spread it to everyone, even worse, to their children.

There are also men who do nothing to their wives but instead turn to drinking and gambling to destroy their own lives. They devote their love and attention to their children and pets.

Because of men's high self-esteem and pride, they often do not cry in the arms of their friends to be comforted like women.

People often say "Jealousy is the spice of love". Smooth love affairs without storms or jealousy easily make the people involved feel bored and monotonous. Love without a little jealousy and anger is like the blandness of a dish without spices.

However, a little bit of “jealousy” in moderation will be a magical catalyst for love. At this point, love will truly have meaning.

An Nhien

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