Ricky Martin - the moment of public homosexuality

November 19, 2016 05:55

Six years after she cried and wrote the words admitting her true gender, the singer of "The Cup of Life" has decided to get married.

Ricky Martin proposed to Jwan Yosef after a year of dating. The handsome singer could not hide his happiness when sharing the good news with host Ellen DeGeneres recently. His two eight-year-old twins also supported Ricky's decision.

However, to be able to publicly announce his happiness to the world, Ricky Martin had to go through painful days.

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Ricky Martin (left) and Jwan Yosef have just announced their engagement.

In a 2013 interview with GQ Australia, Ricky Martin spoke about his homophobic past as a child. "I was angry. I looked at gay men and thought, I don't want to be like them. That's not me. I felt ashamed."

From the age of four or five, Ricky Martin felt that he was different but tried to ignore it. "For many years, I tried to pretend that I was someone else because I grew up in a very conservative, religious world and culture. My religion reminded me that my feelings and attraction to another man were wrong and evil," he told Oprah Winfrey in a 2010 interview.

At 21, Ricky Martin fell in love with a man for the first time, so deeply that he wanted to give up his career to live anonymously. "I wanted to leave everything behind and go to Europe or Asia. I was ready to give up my career. It felt great. But he advised me not to do that. My life's mission was to change many people. He didn't want me to blame him later."

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Ricky Martin has twins through surrogacy.

However, Ricky Martin had to hide his sexuality from fans and endured many rumors. In 2005, American journalist Barbara Walters asked Ricky directly, making him feel offended. "I felt like she hit me. She kept asking and I wasn't ready. It wasn't the right time. Was I ready to tell the world who I was? I didn't even know who I was," Ricky Martin told Oprah Winfrey.

The young man's strange feelings at that time were shared by his mother. She asked her son if he was in love with a man and when he answered yes, the mother hugged Ricky.

There were times when Ricky Martin panicked because he thought he was bisexual. He "had sex" with both sexes, had romantic feelings for both men and women. He described that period of time, everything drove him crazy. Looking back, Ricky Martin affirmed to Latin Post: "I am gay. I am not bisexual."

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Ricky Martin (back) had a long-term relationship with Carlos González Abella, before splitting in 2014.

In 2006, Ricky Martin realized his dream of becoming a father through surrogacy. He welcomed twin boys.Ricky Martin's life began to change from here. As his children grew older, he became increasingly anxious about coming out as his true self.

"My kids give me the strength to face the truth. I don't want my family to be built on lies. I want them to be proud of their father, of their family. I'm both a mother and a father and I'm trying to do the best I can. They should be proud, go out and say they have the best family," Ricky Martin said about the moment he decided to publicly come out.

In 2010, Ricky Martin sat alone in his studio, tears streaming down his face as he wrote heartfelt messages to his fans. He described to Oprah Winfrey: "When I pressed the send button, I suddenly felt a sense of peace. My assistant came in and I started crying like a baby because I felt free, liberated. I could finally say that I completely love myself."

After going public, Ricky Martin was in a relationship with Carlos González Abella, before announcing their split in 2014. In April, he revealed his relationship with Jwan Yosef, a Syrian-born artist who is based in London, England. The famous singer has always dreamed of getting married in the near future because he believes that marriage is an important thing in everyone's life.

According to VNE

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