6 misconceptions about what makes a happy couple

Not all relationships start out romantic. So, focus not only on the sweet feelings, but also on how comfortable and safe you feel around your partner. A healthy relationship is one where you can laugh together and trust each other completely.

Everyone has their own interests and hobbies. Don’t think that if you like classical music and your partner likes surfing, you two will have nothing to talk about or can’t be happy together. On the contrary, personal interests make you irresistibly attractive to each other.

People who never argue are usually just indifferent. Couples who have no problems are usually on their way to breaking up. Of course, insults and loud voices are not nice, but small arguments are not a big deal. They happen to everyone, and they help you understand each other better.

Don’t expect your partner to love your family and friends unconditionally. You don’t have to be a big fan of their family. You chose each other for your partner, not for other people. Interact with people in a way that doesn’t hurt anyone. The key is to communicate your expectations and boundaries for both families.

You think happy couples never spend time apart, that’s a myth. Sooner or later, everyone wants some alone time. Understand this and give each other the privacy you need. And don’t beat yourself up if you want it. Breaks from family obligations are essential to rejuvenating a family.

You admire the image of perfect couples on screen, in commercials. But that has nothing to do with real life. Remember that when you notice your partner's little flaws. They make them more real.

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