The secret to making a husband cherish and love his wife forever

Men are very instinctive creatures. The harder something is to get, the more elusive it is, the more they will try to achieve it and cherish it.

There are devoted wives who work hard all their lives for their husbands, sacrificing and taking care of everything, but all they get in return is indifference, neglect, and fading affection from their husbands.

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Those wives, they are not wrong, it is just because of the instinct of being a wife and mother that makes them always want to be perfect. They try to arrange everything, steer their family ship in the way they think is best. But do you understand that, women have their own role, men also have the responsibility to become the pillars of the family?

When women appear to be too strong, smart and perfect, they unconsciously turn their husbands into weak men, with no position in the family. These unimportant husbands gradually develop a habit of dependence, because everything is available and arranged by their wives.

A man with low self-esteem will feel very uncomfortable and depressed... Family conflicts begin to arise, and the relationship between husband and wife becomes cold and distant because the wife is too considerate.

What we want to talk about here is not about who is weaker than who, who is the head of the family, but basically each gender is born with strengths and weaknesses to complement each other. This family boat needs both husband and wife to work together to row, so wives, please do not deprive your companion of the rights and responsibilities.

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A psychologist once said:“If given a choice, men would rather choose respect than love.”. In other words, men will feel more strongly connected to women who make them feel admired and respect their self-worth.

No matter how capable and strong a woman may be in society, when she comes home as a wife, a man always hopes that she will nestle into his chest to be protected and loved. It can be called the “heroic instinct” that exists in a man’s personality from birth, it is destined to be like that!

So ladies, don’t take on all the household chores and then start to feel tired and resentful when your husband doesn’t help. You are the one who has to create opportunities for him to show that. Don’t be afraid to ask your husband for help, give him the opportunity to “rescue” you.

And when he is eager to help, don't forget to give him a warm hug, a kiss and a sincere thank you. If he is clumsy or clumsy, don't criticize or make fun of him, but encourage him to try harder next time.

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If you loved him for who he is, then continue to cherish your man with such manly interests! He can sit and talk for hours about machines, sports or music... and hope that his partner can share that joy with him.

But if you are not interested in the things he likes, at least show respect. Don't think of your husband's hobbies as meaningless and a waste of time. Praise him for the things he knows and understands, don't just focus on his bad points.

For example, your husband may not be good at housework, but when it comes to astronomy, he is a world of knowledge that makes you amazed and listen with fascination. Finding the good points in your husband to admire and praise is a way to keep love and family happiness of wise wives.

Finally, women should not try to force themselves to be a perfect wife, someone who is always willing to do everything for him, someone who always gives him unconditional love. Let your husband become your own hero!

According to Giadinh.net