Women run out of love, no one suspects
I often tell my friends: "You can joke with anyone, but don't joke with your wife." At that time, they laugh and say: "What is there for women to be afraid of?"...
In fact, many husbands still have the mentality that women are weak and useless. They think that women are born to obey and obey men. Therefore, many men give themselves the right to hurt their wives, and in the end, they are the ones who suffer the consequences.
I once had a friend, she was not beautiful, but she was a family person. Her husband was the director of a company, famous for being handsome and charming. Because he had a little money and power, he gave himself the right to hurt his wife.Many times she came to me crying, she said that he was getting more and more outrageous, not only did he criticize his wife for being old and ugly, but he also insulted her. He compared her to his hot mistresses. For the sake of the children, she had to endure and accept the situation of "sharing a husband".
When women no longer love, they are ready to give up (Illustration photo).
Then she said, she still loved him, she still wanted to find a way to persuade him, to hold him back to change and return to the family. Many times she "pretended" to divorce him to get him back, but then with just a few apologies, he was forgiven. Perhaps, because of that, he became more and more outrageous.
One day, she came to me with disheveled hair and red eyes. She said that her husband's lover was pregnant and asked her to divorce him and give him up. She was so angry that she slapped her twice. Her husband did not defend his wife but slapped her twice to "pay back" his lover. She cried, now she was so tired. She said: "I can't be like this forever". She and I sat together all afternoon, she was still crying, her heart was bleeding.More than 9 months after that meeting, I met her again. This time, she was very beautiful, her long hair was cut short to her shoulders. Her dark skin was now white, rosy and radiant. She was no longer sad, she laughed and talked continuously about her new job, her new life. I suddenly asked: "How are you and him these days?". She smiled: "Still living in the same house...".
She said, before her change, her husband was stunned, from indifference to begging, clinging. She said, let him gradually regret... then she will divorce. "There is no more love, what is the point of living together?", she smiled wryly. She also analyzed for me, in fact, men only have fun outside, are cruel to their wives but do not dare to leave their families. As for her, once she still loved him, she would cling to him, but now she no longer has feelings for him, divorce is a very normal thing. However, she still wants to take back what belongs to her: "He has transferred all the savings books to my name, and the upcoming house will also be transferred... I want my children to have a solid economic foundation". In her eyes looking at me, I felt the fire of hatred burning. Also because the pain she experienced was so great, now, her determination is even higher.
Only then can we see how scary women are when they no longer love each other… Now, I understand more deeply the saying: “Don’t underestimate women, when they are determined, nothing is impossible.”