Husband refuses to 'make love' to wife because of masturbation addiction
While caressing his wife, 29-year-old Tung (Hanoi) suddenly turned to "do it himself", leaving his young wife lying there with disappointment and anger.
The young couple came to the Hanoi Andrology and Infertility Hospital for examination feeling shy and embarrassed. Talking to the doctor, Mr. Tung confessed that he did not want to have sex with his wife but only liked to "do it himself".
Mr. Tung said, when he was still aliveSingle people often masturbate a lot. When he got married, he still couldn't give up this habit. Especially, when having sex with his wife, he didn't ejaculate but when he masturbated, he felt satisfied.
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Doctor Loi examines a young couple. Photo:Le Nga. |
Ms. Ngan, Mr. Tung's wife, shyly shared with the doctor that she and her husband had been married for a year but their sexual relationship was not harmonious. The wife thought that everything about her was fine, and she even kept learning sexual skills to be in harmony with her husband. However, her husband still did not enjoy having sex with his wife, which made her very sad. "MEvery time we make love, he seems very uncomfortable, in a hurry and then turns around to do it himself," said Ms. Ngan.
After examining and performing the necessary tests, the doctor determined that the husband had erectile dysfunction and difficulty ejaculating. This consequence was partly due to his excessive masturbation. "This husband no longer masturbates to relieve his desires like before, but has become addicted, leading to the fact that even though he is married, he still masturbates," the doctor said.Nguyen Khac Loi, Director of Hanoi Andrology and Infertility Hospital said.
The doctor asked Mr. Tung to absolutely not masturbate anymore and to have sex with his wife. The doctor prescribed medication to treat erectile dysfunction and gave the couple additional sexual advice.
Doctor Loi said that in reality, married men still have the habit of masturbation. In Mr. Tung's case, due to erectile dysfunction, he is not able to have enough erection to have sex and ejaculate, so he increasingly avoids his wife.Prostitution is not bad but it should not be abused.Repeated masturbation abuse at a young age can cause erectile dysfunction, affecting the quality of sexual life in adulthood.