9 things parents must teach their sons
Many parents think that it is only necessary to teach daughters and sons to be strong enough to overcome things in life, but in reality, that is not the case.
1. Teach about the risks of sexual abuse
Just like girls, boys need to be taught the difference between “good touch and bad touch”. Boys should learn to speak up if they are victims of sexual abuse. This gives them the courage to speak up about the inappropriate actions that others have done to them. Boys can only speak up if their parents teach them from a young age and understand the correct meaning of sexual abuse.
2. Proper behavior
As girls grow up, they will listen to their parents or family members’ advice on how to sit, talk, dress and behave properly. A boy should also be taught the same manners. Being taught proper manners will help him become a better person.
3. Boys can still cry
Boys shouldn't cry - it's a myth. Anyone can cry or express their emotions, because it doesn't make a boy less manly. Many boys bury their emotions because they believe that expressing emotions is only for girls.
4. Sweep and clean the house
Sweeping and cleaning is not a science and does not require any special skills. Parents should encourage their sons to help their mothers when cleaning the house. Even if a maid is in the house, boys should not hesitate to pick up a broom and clean the house.
5. Get consent from others
Girls often ask for and get permission from their parents even for the smallest things. If a boy is not taught this, he will grow up thinking that it is not his job to get permission from others. Therefore, parents should teach their sons about the importance of asking for and getting permission from others.
6. How to cook
Eating is a basic need. Everyone gets hungry, regardless of gender. So there is nothing wrong or harmful in learning to cook. Parents should encourage their sons to learn to cook from a young age.
7. How to groom and take care of your body
Girls are taught how to take care of their bodies, from appearance to dressing. Many boys believe that grooming and dressing are girls’ jobs. However, as they grow older, young men can realize the importance of dressing well.
8. Sewing
When it comes to sewing, many guys don't know how to do it. But imagine, you have an important meeting with a client but the button on your favorite shirt falls off. Calling your mother for help may not help. For guys, there is nothing wrong with picking up a needle to sew or sew. Because, this does not affect gender and helps you take care of yourself.
9. Respect women
The world would be a better place if every man learned to respect women. Boys need to understand that women do not only mean their mothers, sisters or daughters but also all the women around them. Parents should teach their sons to respect and protect their mothers, sisters, and other women.