I used to be overjoyed and proud when my child won a prestigious scholarship to a top-ranked university in the world, proud of my child's success! But, when I deeply realized that my children are not my possessions, that they are completely free to live and think as they please, I found immense happiness and peace! Love is the wings that give wings to freedom and does not seek possession.
I used to be proud of being intelligent and shrewd enough to demand and take what I wanted. But then, I found more comfort and joy in my heart as my feelings of gratitude grew stronger and deeper.
I used to take pride in driving expensive cars. But then, I found more comfort and peace in cycling along windy embankments or on small paths shaded by green trees.
I used to strive and take pride in befriending and associating with powerful and famous people. But then, I found more peace and comfort in whispering to the garden, watching the leaves sway, the flowers bloom, and my dog dozing peacefully at my feet!
I used to be proud of attending lavish, expensive parties with fine wines, lobster, and shark fin… But then, I found it healthier and better for myself with simple foods harvested from trees, grown naturally in the soil, and as minimally processed as possible!
I used to take pride in building several houses with all the modern conveniences in the bustling city. But then, I found myself more peaceful and comfortable in a small, simple house, surrounded by greenery and flowers that bloom in all seasons!
I used to take pride in reading many books, equipping myself with numerous arguments and points, and being able to quote many philosophers and sages from East and West, ancient and modern... so that I could win any debate. But then, I found greater success in being trusted by children to play with as their friends, and in listening to elderly people whisper stories to me.
I used to always appear serious and stern, somewhat distant and unapproachable, because I believed it was a sign of maturity. But then, I realized that when I relaxed and loosened my facial muscles, easily smiling happily, friendly, humble, and open-mindedly—even with just a baby, a puppy, a shimmering ray of sunlight filtering through the leaves, or a joyful smile at the sound of a distant bird—I understood that I had become even more mature!
I used to be proud of being admired and praised by many. But then, I realized that when I cry, and the face in the mirror cries with me, I feel more comfortable and peaceful.
I used to be proud that, from the valley where I started, I had reached some of my own peaks. But, as I find myself on the path back to the valley, I find myself more mature, blessed, and at peace!
Article: Seagull
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