Phi Thanh Van: 'I am happy to be a mother after many miscarriages'

The actress confided that cosmetic surgery did not affect childbirth and expressed her happiness when her husband helped take care of the children.

- You gave birth to your first child on the occasion of Lunar New Year 2016. How did you feel when you witnessed your child being born after many unsuccessful pregnancies?

-What a wonderful feeling! The moment the baby started crying, I couldn't believe that I was a mother. In the end, I felt happier than at any moment in the past 34 years.

I have experienced many different emotions in my life, but being a mother is the most wonderful feeling. I had a caesarean section, so after the anesthesia wore off, my body was in a lot of pain, especially in my abdomen. But because of my love for my child, and my strong personality, I refused the help of the maid, trying to walk by myself so that my body could adapt quickly and the incision could heal quickly.

- What is a day like for you as a mother?

- At 5am I breastfeed my baby for the first time of the day. He drinks breast milk and formula in a ratio of two parts breast milk, one part formula. Breastfeeding and playing with my baby takes up all my time during the day.

Morning is the time to start the mother and baby care service, and it is completed in the afternoon. Housekeeping and cooking according to nutritional formulas are done by the maid. The child is carefully taken care of with every meal on time and gets enough sleep. Luckily, my child rarely cries, only when hungry or needs a diaper change to signal adults to care for him.

I try to get enough sleep to have the energy to take care of the baby. Staying up all night is quite tiring for both of us. After the daytime services are completed and the caregivers leave, at night, my husband and I take turns looking after the baby. My husband usually takes care of the baby from 10pm to 4am. During this time, he devotes the most time to his wife. He usually takes care of the baby more so that I can sleep well.

Phi Thanh Van (blue dress) gave birth on the occasion of Lunar New Year.

- How did your previous cosmetic surgery affect your decision to have a cesarean section instead of a natural birth?

- Cosmetic surgery has no impact on my pregnancy and childbirth. Because I had difficulty getting pregnant, and I'm no longer young, my husband and I decided to have a cesarean section.

Many people also wonder if my breast implants affect my mammary glands. I confirm that my mammary glands are normal like any other woman.Currently, each time I pump, I can pump about 70 to 100 ml of milk and my baby drinks about 60 ml each time. I freeze the remaining milk for my baby to use gradually.

-How do you take care of yourself after giving birth to ensure you have enough milk for your baby?

- One month after giving birth, I lost more than 10 kg. Although I lost weight, the amount of milk secreted for breastfeeding was still regular every day. That was because I followed the nutritionist's menu, did not focus too much on eating a lot of rice or abstaining from raw foods, seafood... as some folk experiences. In addition, II take care of my skin every day, such as steaming, massaging, sunbathing, rubbing ginger and turmeric wine. I still apply other traditional herbal remedies. Thanks to that, I quickly regained my figure and porcelain white skin after giving birth.

Tính tôi vốn tự lập từ nhỏ nên không thích phiền ông bà hai bên. Bên nội thì ở xa, bên ngoại mẹ tôi cũng bận trông cùng lúc nhiều cháu nên tôi bàn với ông xã là sử dụng toàn bộ dịch vụ chăm sóc sức khỏe bà mẹ sau sinh để các cụ đỡ bận rộn. Tôi chuẩn bị rất kỹ từ người giúp việc, vú em, chuyên gia dinh dưỡng trong thai kỳ và sau sinh.

Dù chi phi khá cao cho các dịch vụ, tôi vẫn hài lòng vì được chăm sóc chuẩn khoa học. Đặc biệt là đỡ đần được ông bà ngoại khoản chăm con gái sau sinh. Bố mẹ tôi đều lớn tuổi, nếu còn phải phục vụ con gái và cháu sẽ rất cực nhọc. Hai cụ chịu khó tới thăm cháu và động viên là tôi thấy vui rồi.

Nữ diễn viên được chồng chăm sóc tận tình trong thời gian mang thai.

- Ngoài cảm nhận sự tận tâm của chồng, chị thay đổi ra sao khi làm mẹ?

-Tôi thấu hiểu hơn bao giờ hết cụm từ "bà mẹ bỉm sữa". Tôi thấy mình trở nên nữ tính hơn, nhạy cảm hơn. Tôi có thể khóc khi ngắm con ngủ, thấy con khóc, cười. Đó là những giọt nước mắt hạnh phúc của một người phụ nữ vất vả lắm mới được làm mẹ ở tuổi 34.

Từ sau khi sinh, tôi cũng thấy thương mẹ mình hơn bao giờ hết. Tôi thương chồng nhiều hơn khi chứng kiến sự chu đáo của anh dành cho hai mẹ con. Tôi nghĩ không mấy người đàn ông chăm sóc vợ con chu đáo được như chồng mình.

According to VNE