5 actions of husbands 'pushing' their wives into the arms of others

If she does not receive attention, understanding and support from her husband, the wife may look the other way.

In a recent article published on FamilyShare, Mexican writer Ruth Huppe argues that men are not the only ones who go out looking for what they are not getting in marriage. When a wife is humiliated, abused, or ignored, she may seek comfort in the arms of another man.

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Ruth Huppe lists some of the reasons why a woman falls in love with another man, and suggests what husbands should do to prevent such a disaster:

Lack of romance

A bouquet of flowers, a note on the fridge, a midday call to tell her how much you care. Women always appreciate these gestures. Don't forget the intimate caress too. You don't have to overdo it because your wife will be touched by the simple things you do for her.

Abandoned

If your job is stressful, you should still remember that taking care of a child is equally tiring. Leave your worries, stress, and anger outside the door and be proactive and ready to help your wife when you get home.

Lonely

Most women love to talk, so if you don't spend at least 5 minutes a day listening to her, she won't want to talk to you. Your lack of attention can make her feel terribly lonely. If you have to travel a lot for work, make sure your long-distance relationship is fun and romantic.

Furious

It is not fun to be on the receiving end of your spouse’s frustration and anger. If she finds herself in that state often, she will tend to look for a more relaxed relationship. Learn to manage your emotions. If you are upset with your wife, wait for a while until you are completely calm to talk and analyze the situation with her. When you make a mistake, do not blame your wife, be brave to apologize to her.

Lack of support

If you want your wife to be independent and have a social life outside the home, you need to support her. She won't be able to leave her children if you are not willing to babysit them. Encourage her to pursue her dreams. If she wants to develop her career, she needs your full support to pursue her decisions.

Look, if your spouse is lonely, disappointed or depressed, you need to do the best for her, to show her how much you love her. A good wife always sacrifices her life for her family. If you want to maintain a long-lasting marriage with your wife, you need to learn to listen and show affection to her.

Now, you are her life

Give her more than you expect to receive and don't ask for more than you are willing to give. Respect and love will help your marriage last for years. My advice is to pay attention to your wife every day, because if you don't, she may look elsewhere.

According to VNE