13 signs to help you find a mature man

(Baonghean.vn) - Some men mature at the age of 15-16, while others remain children even after the age of 30 or 40. Therefore, assessing a man's maturity by age is completely inaccurate and must be experienced according to the following signs:

1. Don't criticize your appearance

“Why aren’t you wearing pink?” A man who truly loves you will never talk about your appearance that way. When he says that, he’s not trying to help you, he’s just trying to lower your self-esteem and make sure you don’t have the courage to leave him.

A mature man always knows how to care for his woman (Illustration photo).

2. Don't be self-conscious about your appearance and style

Feeling insecure will lead to fear, anxiety and even anger, which will negatively affect your life. A mature man is willing to wear what he likes and does not care about the negative opinions around him.

3. Do not invade your personal space

If you have a truly loving and committed relationship, you will not need to hide anything from your partner, whether it is Facebook messages or phone contacts. However, that does not mean your other half can go through your wallet or read your personal mail. That shows that he is suspicious and disrespectful to you.

4. Never abuse or insult you

Abuse is not only physical but also psychological. If you are experiencing any kind of domestic violence, stop forgiving him and leave him immediately.

5. Don't just think about the present

Some men may spend their last penny on an expensive dinner at a restaurant without thinking about the consequences. Or they may have a party in the middle of the week and take the next day off work. Such men are incapable of making plans or thinking about the future.

6. Don't leave your family

Men being filial to their parents also means they value their family very much. Illustration photo.

A mature man always spends time with his parents even if their relationship is not very good. He understands that it is very important to care for the people who gave birth to him and took care of him. However, he never depends on his parents so much that he does not care about his own family.

7. Don't make you feel like you're just a secondary concern

All men need to go out with friends and enjoy bachelor nights. But a wise man will never make his wife feel like she comes second to her friends.

8. Don't let fear get in the way of your success and happiness.

The fear of failure, the fear of rejection or the fear of being despised is one of the things that makes many men give up. Living in fear means always closing yourself off and ignoring great opportunities in life, opportunities that will help you succeed in your career, love, relationships or simply to improve yourself. For men who are truly mature, they know that fear is a gift and they know how to overcome it.

9. Do not hold grudges

There is a Buddhist saying: "Holding grudges in your heart is like drinking poison and expecting someone to die." In daily life, arguments are inevitable. However, the clear sign of a mature man is that when the argument is over, all negative emotions are gone.

10. Don't do everything to please others

You often see guys who will work out hard just to impress women, some other men will taste wine to show off their elegance, or occasionally you will meet a few people who act smart to gain respect from their boss and colleagues. Mature men will not be motivated by what others think, their only motivation is the desire to improve, to learn and develop in the way they want.

11. Don't get frustrated or complain when faced with challenges

Women will feel safe when they are with a brave man. Illustration photo.

Frustration or complaining is unnecessary for mature men. When faced with challenges, they are usually calm, always keep their spirits high and work hard to find a solution. They usually do not make too much noise until they find the best solution. This is the reason why people around them always feel safe and optimistic.

12. Don't have unrealistic goals

Some people give up early because they set unrealistic goals for themselves from the beginning and can never achieve them. An important part of maturity is being honest with yourself, knowing who you are so that you can have the right goals. Mature men can persevere for a long time and know that they will definitely get the desired results.

13. Don't see your job as something to endure

While many people think that work is something mandatory and tiring, they just want to finish quickly to go home, mature men try their best to be able to complete the work well and upgrade them. They know that many people are relying on the results of their work, this must be the number 1 priority.

Le Hoa

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