6 ways to test a man

Turning off your phone for a day, complimenting other men in front of him... are ways to test whether your relationship is lasting or not.

You are attracted to a man and intend to commit to him. You wonder if this relationship will last and can survive the challenges ahead?Here are some ways to test your man. But be careful when testing his patience, according to Boldsky.

Do what he wants and see what happens.

Some men want their girlfriends or wives to obey them and get mad when they disobey them. And you don’t want to spend your whole life with a man who wants to control you. So test him by doing the opposite and see how he reacts. If he gets angry for a while but then realizes that your happiness is more important than getting his way, he’s a good guy.But if he threatens to break up over such petty things, think again.

Cause a quarrel

One fine day, try to pick a fight and see how he reacts. Pick a random topic and come up with a crazy opinion to start getting him riled up. If he says it’s okay to disagree and tries to pacify the argument in a friendly way, he’s a mature man. But if he tries to argue and refute your point, then you need to pay attention. Arguments are inevitable in relationships and you want to be with someone who listens and accepts different opinions rather than just trying to win.

Test your patience

Patience is a gift. Test him and see if he gets angry easily. If he loses his patience, pay attention to how quickly he recovers. Men who expect you to apologize for small things are likely to ruin your happiness.

Turn off your phone for a day

Turn off your phone for a day and check the next day to see if there are any missed calls or messages from him. If there are none, he probably doesn't care much about you. If there are too many messages, it seems like he's suspicious of you and can easily suffocate you with his over-controlling behavior. If there are a few meaningful messages that show that he's just concerned about your safety, he's probably the one for you.

Tell him you spent the night at a friend's house.

Watch his reaction. If his face suddenly changes color, he may be suspicious of you and wondering what you did all night. It’s normal to be suspicious. But if he loves and trusts you, he will quickly shake off his suspicions and give you a big hug.

Complimenting other men in front of him

Men hate this. But that's why you should try it and see how he reacts. If he gets mad, he probably needs to learn more about women. Tell him that complimenting another man doesn't mean you desire him.

With the above methods, you can try to see if your relationship is strong enough to overcome the difficult times in life. But be careful and do not try too hard because it can make a shy guy want to run away immediately.

According to VNE