If you have these 9 habits, don't be shocked if you get divorced.

Many people are shocked when their spouse asks them to leave without understanding why. Marriage experts say there are certain habits that can make your spouse want to stay away, according toLongroom.

Complaining

These things destroy rather than help your marriage. When you constantly complain and criticize, you show that you are unhappy. Instead of focusing on what is wrong, look at what is right.

Sex embargo

Love ExpertUsing sex as a weapon by banning it every time you argue makes it feel like a responsibility rather than a pleasure to be enjoyed, explains Ar'nie Krogh.

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Prioritize other things over marriage

When other things come first, such as friends, career, personal interests... your marriage will hardly be happy for a long time.

gossip

Don't badmouth each other to family and friends. Of course we need to be real and sometimes share our frustrations, but find a trusted friend to confide in.

Trying to control your partner

Don't force your spouse to eat this, wear that, speak or act the way you want. You can't do it and it makes the other person unhappy.

Not doing the things you love

Whether it’s a weekly exercise class or a get-together with friends, don’t put it off. No one person can meet all of your social, emotional, and psychological needs. Don’t ignore your needs and stop doing the things that bring you joy.

Disrespecting your partner's tolerance level

ExpertAr'nie Krogh believes that any habit is acceptable until it crosses the line. It's okay if you don't like to shower, until your spouse has to repeatedly tell you that you can't stand the smell. At some point, that lack of showering can become grounds for divorce.

If you are bothered by a habit of your spouse, speak up because they may not realize it bothers you.

Careless, casual

Even if you are in bed together, don't be too casual with each other. Regularly saying polite words and thanking your spouse when they do something nice for you shows that you appreciate their efforts.

sulk

When things go wrong between two adults, don't ignore it and leave in a huff. Experts believe it's best to take a deep breath, put your ego aside, and calmly talk things out.

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