Men pay attention to 6 signs that the wife is bored with her husband

If there are the following signs, husbands should "wake up" and listen to what she says, before it's too late.

The fact is that many men do not care about their partner's satisfaction in life,Sharon Gilchrest O'Neill, marriage and family therapist, author ofA Short Guide to a Happy Marriage: The Essentials for Long-Lasting Togetherness, comments aboveThe Huffington Post.

"Many men don't realize when their wives want to leave the marriage," she said.Some wives quietly observe to see if their husbands care and notice.

Gilchrest O'Neill and other psychologists have shared some clear signs that wives are reconsidering their marriages:

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1. She seemschange "overnight".

In trying to improve her marriage, she may have made many suggestions but her husband ignored them. In most cases, the wife has reached a stage where she decides to leave the marriage due to disappointment and disillusionment with her husband.

2. "I don't want to talk about it anymore" becomes the refrain

When your wife is no longer willing or able to have a serious discussion about the state of your marriage, it could be an indicator that she has reached a breaking point, says marriage psychologist.R. Scott Gornto of Texas said.

"When people still have the energy to argue and discuss, even conflict about issues, the marriage is still alive. The opposite is when she gives up."

3. You and your spouse hardly touch each other anymore.

When you’re in love, you feel comfortable touching your partner, holding hands while walking down the street. That touch releases oxytocin, the hormone that makes us feel bonded and loved. A lack of physical contact—both in and out of the bedroom—suggests that something is wrong in your marriage.

If this happens, talk openly with your wife to understand what she is feeling. Don't pressure her to touch you more, which can be counterproductive.

4. You and your spouse are like two parallel individuals.

If your wife chooses to enjoy her friends and hobbies instead of spending time with her husband, tell her how hurt you feel,Gilchrest O'Neill said.

5. All you talk about is kids and housework.

If your son's soccer game is the only thing you talk about when you're alone together, it's time to deepen your relationship outside of the kids.

6. She makes snide comments about your spending.

When you care about someone, you watch your words. If she used to be sweet and kind to you, but now she occasionally nags at you about your mistakes or makes snide remarks about your spending, she may no longer care about pleasing you. Your marriage is in trouble.

According to VNE