Beware of 12 dangers that destroy family happiness

(Baonghean.vn) -Family life brings us much happiness. However, there are many issues that need to be given serious attention.enough, correct, must be accepted and carried out by two people of one mind. On the contrary, excess in anyohany areaguideto cracks and eventually to irreversible breakup.desire.

1. Sudden change in lifestyle

Marriage is not just a wedding ceremony. It is the beginning of a new life with a completely new lifestyle. You have to learn to understand the principles of living with your partner. And even if you do not sacrifice yourself to adapt, you will quickly fall into a negative state.

Don't give up too soon. Illustration photo.

2. Expecting too much from your partner

Marriage is a big turning point, so many people put great hopes and expectations into it. However, married life often does not go as planned. This makes each person feel somewhat unacceptable and easily lose faith more than anyone else.

3.Lack of connection between husband and wife

This is a common reason why marriages fail. Everyone has different goals and expectations. When you find it difficult to live with someone you can’t share your feelings with, it means your marriage is showing signs of cracks.

4. Criticism and comparison in marriage

Criticism is what writers do for a living. It is not a necessary part of a marital relationship.

Be willing to give advice to your spouse to find harmony in marriage. Illustration photo.

It is absolutely necessary for you to help your partner correct his/her mistakes and improve himself/herself. However, do not constantly bring up his/her imperfections to criticize and compare with anyone else. That will irritate and make your "partner" feel overly offended.

5. Change of position

You always want to be number 1 in your partner's eyes. But this priority will change, either work or children. Although that does not mean you are less important, but few people want to admit this.

Have you ever loved your friendships or work more than your marriage? Do you need their support and advice more than your spouse? This is also one of the early signs of a broken marriage.

6. Trust is always an issue

Do you really trust your spouse? Are you suspicious and jealous? Trust is the key to every marriage. Without it, nothing can survive.

7. "Out of sync" marital relationship

Sexual incompatibility is a major cause of reduced marital longevity. Illustration photo.

Boredom and lack of harmony in sexual relationships are major causes of reduced marriage longevity. Once love becomes “normalized” and sex becomes problematic, the divorce rate will be higher.

8. Bad habits are hard to break

The longer you live together, the more impatient you become with each other. As a result, you will find yourself frustrated with your partner's bad habits that you cannot change. Even a small mistake can make you upset and angry.

9. Conflicts about money

A difficult material life, lack of money... is the cause of many broken families, can make even a beautiful, passionate love unable to resist. The worries about food, clothing, and money make people easily frustrated, angry, leading to conflicts and quarrels, let alone caring for and looking after each other.

Improving family financial management skills will improve the relationship between husband and wife. Illustration photo

Because of money, or rather because of the lack of money, or because of the unfair distribution of money according to the husband or wife's point of view, couples often break up. Usually, the main cause of quarrels in the family is not necessarily the standard of living but the way money is spent. Therefore, before dragging each other to court, you should see a psychologist or sociologist to guide you in planning your family budget.

10. Unexpected Betrayal

No one can guarantee that they will only love one person in their entire life. There will come a time when you find someone who makes you feel the same way again. That is the reason why you cheat on your partner.

On the other hand, adultery often occurs when there is already some problem in the relationship between two people, so when one person tries to sleep with someone other than their wife or husband, their family is already going downhill.

11. The one behind

Be wary of ill-intentioned suggestions. Illustration photo

The interference of relatives, family members, and friends of your husband (or wife) is sometimes very harmful to the relationship between husband and wife. If the couple is harmonious, you can resist the influence from outside. For example, if you broke up because your mother-in-law, brother-in-law, etc. interfered in your family, not because of a “third person”, then you have to review your own relationship. And the result is that you are weak and wavering before another person, which is the reason that pushes you to have an affair.

12. Physical or mental abuse

This is one of the main and ultimate factors that cause a marriage to break down. This is due to the violent attitude and behavior of one of the partners, the wife or husband. The wife or husband is the one who has to bear the consequences of the violent behavior, mental and physical threats. Therefore, they have less chance for a relationship/marriage to continue in the long run.

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