Don't be jealous of the past, cherish the present

Making the man you love forget his ex-girlfriend is really a very difficult thing. However, it is not impossible.

Everyone has a past, you have an ex, so does he. The most important thing is the present, the two of you are coming together. If you are a wise person, you should not be jealous of the past but cherish the present, making the guy you love immersed in the feelings of the two of you.

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1. Tolerance

According to psychologists, a tolerant and generous girl is very attractive to men. So from today onwards, let go of petty losses, don't keep remembering trivial obsessions because of the image of his girl in the past.

At the same time, don't go into a dead end in your relationship, use your tolerance to make your boyfriend feel more comfortable, if he makes a small mistake, don't criticize or nag, or compare past events. Of course, tolerance doesn't mean weakness, the key is to distinguish which mistakes are acceptable and which are not.

In fact, men hate women who never let go of old stories, and they also hate indirect talk. If there is something wrong, you should say it directly. Besides, you should also tell him what you can accept and vice versa.

Remember, this world is like that, there is no eternity, there is no perfection, to find true love, most people have to taste the bitterness of love. Therefore, do not let his past haunt you and your future.

2. Trust

Trust is the foundation of love. When your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend tries to destroy your current relationship, the best thing to do is to trust your boyfriend. Remember, you are his present, his future, the girl who came before is just the past.

The past is old, broken, and no matter how hard you try, it can never be the same as it was at first. Usually, although men have been confused for a while, they often know what they want in love. If you yourself have not done anything wrong but your girlfriend often suspects you without any basis, it is difficult for men to avoid falling into a state of depression. Prolonging this situation will make men tend to do the opposite of what you want.

People often say, be patient, give him some time, use your trust to move him, and take the initiative to handle everything properly.

3. Take the initiative to tell your boyfriend how you feel.

Faced with the situation where their boyfriend's ex-lover keeps pestering them, many girls choose to stay silent. They feel uncomfortable and angry, but because of pride, not wanting to lower themselves, not wanting their boyfriend to know that they are jealous of their ex, they stay silent and use many other things to vent their anger on their boyfriend.

However, these girls do not know that love is to hold on, if love is not jealous, how can it be called love. It is that silence that makes things more complicated. When faced with such a situation, girls should take the initiative to speak directly about their feelings and thoughts to their boyfriends, and at the same time ask their boyfriends to end their unclear entanglement with their ex-lovers.

If your boyfriend can listen to your suggestion, you should not be sad and angry anymore. Because the person he loves and cares about the most is you.

4. Take the initiative to show your affection in front of your ex-girlfriend

When in love, everyone has the instinct to protect their love. The reason why you express your love in front of your boyfriend's ex is to let her know that no matter how much she tries to sabotage and disturb you, you two are still very happy.

Seeing the two of you happy and affectionate, she will also feel defeated, gradually the motivation to "fight" will fade, and she will know it is difficult to give up.

According to VNN