If you don't do it, someone else will do it for you!

(Baonghean.vn)- Life is getting busier and busier with a fast and bustling pace, making the time couples spend together increasingly limited. So why don't you cleverly arrange your life schedule with your partner so that both of you can have relaxing moments together?

1. If you don't talk to me, someone else will do it for you!

Communication is the best form of bonding. A daily conversation is the quickest, most effective way to clear up any misunderstandings. If you are wondering about something or feeling dissatisfied with your partner, just talk about it, it’s that simple.

2. If you don't make me happy, someone else will!

A small, convenient gift every time he stops by a store or supermarket is worth as much as a diamond ring. He can’t buy her a diamond ring, but he can definitely buy something worth a diamond: his wife’s joy and happiness. If he doesn’t do it, someone else will do it for him!

3. If you don't eat with me, someone else will do it for you!

Life can be busy, work pressure, physical fatigue… sometimes makes you want to skip meals or eat somewhere else before going home. But remember, a home needs its own typical activities, husband and wife need to maintain peaceful meals together. Maintaining warm meals together is a way to establish a stronger love.

4. If you don't listen to my feelings, someone else will do it for you!

When your wife needs to talk, sit still and listen. You can ask questions to understand more about her feelings and thoughts. Women often want to talk about their feelings, while men want to get away from their negative wives.

5. If you can't give in to me, someone else will do it for you!

“You’re right, my dear!” These are five words that solve every marital crisis. Admitting that she’s right will make her look up to her husband even though he may not be taller than her. Time will tell, and someday there will be a chance to explain more. Why should you get angry and argue with your wife in a moment of anger? Don’t let other men comfort your wife. They are everywhere and are always waiting for this opportunity!

6. If you can't be gentle with me, someone else will do it for you!

Instead of yelling and scolding, husbands should try to soften their voices when talking to their wives. The effect will be obvious. Especially when the two of you disagree, one of you needs to restrain your emotions to control your actions and words. If you can do that, then maybe in the next argument your wife will be the one to give in.

Never speak harshly to women, a man who truly loves his wife will be gentle, showing affection instead of treating her badly.

7. If I can't spend time with you, someone else will!

Life is getting busier and busier with a fast and bustling pace, making time for personal entertainment activities increasingly limited. So why don't you cleverly arrange your life schedule with your partner so that both of you can have relaxing moments together? Try dating for lunch, or going shopping together at the supermarket... That is also a way for couples to get closer without spending too much time. Because if you are too busy, someone else will have free time with your wife.

8. If you don't open the door for me into your world, someone else will!

With any free time during the day, spend it with your partner. Stop surfing the internet, stop checking Facebook, social networks, turn off all those things and talk face to face with your partner. That will definitely make you love each other more than each person burying their face in their own world.

9. If you can't keep your promise to me, someone else will do it for you!

Promises are meant to be kept, not just left there. What erodes a wife’s trust in her husband the most is not betrayal but daily promises. I have always believed that every woman knows how to “fear” her husband if he keeps his promises, not just promises and then leaves them there. That fear makes your wife respect you, admire you, and admire you, not make her defensive against you. Make your wife fear you with that, not with her fists. There is a difference between Respect and Fear!

10. If you don't say you miss me, someone else will do it for you!

Take time during the day to think about her and some of the memories you have shared. Then, pick up the phone and tell her what you’re thinking about right now: the longing, the joy you feel when recalling a certain memory… If not, you can always send a text message. That way, your wife will know that she’s on your mind every day.

11. If I can't give you peace when I'm with you, someone else will do it for me!

Feeling safe and secure is something you need to continue to maintain in your marriage. Always be there for her and show her that you are always there for her. Providing a sense of security is a way for both of you to relive the feelings you had when you first fell in love. If you cannot provide that feeling to your wife, then you are a failure!

An Nhien (synthesis)