The art of getting the husband you want

(Baonghean.vn) - Women often sit and paint the image of their ideal future husband like in their dreams, but in reality, no one is perfect. Know how to recognize the most necessary things and outline the most effective strategy to own a husband as desired. The following things can help you achieve your wishes.

Distance yourself from people who don't fit in.

Sometimes the reason you can’t find a good man is because there are too many unsuitable men around you. They may be those who have a flashy, romantic appearance but are not serious in love. Being with them, you will have fun but will never become the only woman to love and be loved.

Set clear goals

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Once you have eliminated the wrong people, you need to come up with a dream role model to support your point of view. However, don't set a role model that is too unrealistic. It should be someone with specific, realistic qualities.

Create conditions and circumstances for meeting

If you are busy looking for your other half, in addition to the familiar places you often go to with friends such as shops, clubs, places for women... you should go to places with many men, such as shopping at men's clothing stores, going to golf courses, fishing, fitness clubs... Surely in those places, you will have the opportunity to meet the men you expect.

Don't judge by appearance

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Never judge a person based on their appearance because that will often make you miss the chance to get a really good man. Don't rush to refuse to date a man just because of silly reasons like "his shoes are too bad", he doesn't look stylish... Remember that there are mistakes, especially related to fashion, that can be completely fixed over time after you have accepted your love. Moreover, it can be a "trick" that he uses to see what your real feelings are.

Use reason to choose a good husband

There is nothing good about the crazy, hasty, devoted, and infatuated love because that actually only makes the girl suffer the most. Love is a process, let reason choose to help the heart in some aspects. Reason can make objective comments about the personality of the person you love, whether they are really suitable for you.

Found a lot in common

If you want to have a dream husband in your life, you should not be too picky about how much money he has, whether he is handsome or not, but the important thing is that you need to find a man who has as many things in common with you as possible. Because once a marriage is built between two people with less opposing views, lifestyles… – less conflicts, the easier it is to have a happy marriage.

Choose someone worse than you

A guy who is not as handsome as you is always ready to roll up his sleeves to help you with housework at any time. Because when he has you, he will always keep in mind that he has a beautiful wife and will love you more, when he helps share all the housework with you, it means he will be the type of man who is able to prolong his marriage longer than other guys.

Be independent and a bit selfish

Sometimes, to get a great man for your life, you also need to become an independent person and a little selfish. Don't always stick with your best friend because it is very possible that your best friend will become a "heavyweight opponent" when you meet a suitable guy. Get into the habit of going alone, then you will increase the chance of attracting the attention of men towards you and the chance of finding the right man for you is higher.

Assessment through work

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Women often love with their ears, that’s why men often use sweet words to conquer women. Consider those words as a song or something to entertain you, just listen for fun, don’t be foolish enough to believe everything. If you want to verify how much of what he says is true, observe what he does. See how he faces difficulties…”

Determine his qualities

No one person can have all the great qualities. Be smart about what are the key qualities in a man to date.

Will and passion for work: When men get married, they will focus more on their career. When married and living together, life together can sometimes be boring, then work is what they use to balance their life (not gambling, drinking, having affairs...).

Emotional, caring, sharing man: If possible, women will choose a faithful man, but faithfulness is difficult to evaluate and cannot be measured. Therefore, men who know how to respect, love, and care for their parents are also a good promise for their family in the future. From love, they also know how to care, take better care of the person they love, not making people hurt...

Ready to receive love

Once you have eliminated the wrong people and found the ideal type, you still need to prepare yourself to receive love. A good man will not be able to enter your life if you are still attached to your ex, in a bad situation, living a secluded life or not seeing anyone.

Don't forget to take care of yourself both physically and mentally.

Women must know how to beautify themselves. Photo: Internet

For women, appearance is indeed an essential factor. People say men love with their eyes, and they are right. Women who are a little disadvantaged in terms of beauty will have a harder time, because they have to show their soul to the other person.

If you are beautiful and attractive, that is an advantage! Choose a suitable and more feminine hairstyle, dress more beautifully and attractively, take care of your health more, smile more when meeting people, that will not lose anything but on the contrary will bring you many benefits. Friends, colleagues and family will see you happy, they will be less concerned and worried about you than if you are gloomy and lack confidence.

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