If you like someone but they don't show it clearly, these are signs that "we don't belong together".
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| You are proactive:You two have gone to the movies, had coffee, and even gone to the amusement park together. You had a great time and look forward to spending more time with him. But you realize that he has never been the one to initiate an invitation. If he has not been the one to contact you first, he may not want a relationship but just friends. Tip: If you are always the one to initiate, create some distance instead of making a move, he may miss you and chase you or your conquest will stop. Still better than nothing, right? |
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| He praised his friend:Before you met, you worked hard on your appearance and your conversation, confident that you were a worthy target. But suddenly he starts talking about his friends and suggesting that you meet one of them, which is not a good sign. Tip: Ask him to describe the type of man he thinks would be right for you. If this type is the opposite of his, you have your answer. |
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| You go out in groups:You long for some alone time with your crush but every time you make plans, he brings a group of friends! If he always brings a group of friends whenever you two are together, he may have put you in the friend zone. Tip: Invite him to do something just the two of you and see how he reacts. If he shies away or says it would be more fun in a group, he probably doesn't want to be alone with you. |
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| Two people don't have dinner together (or do anything else in the evening):Everyone knows that evenings are for romance. That’s why we go out to dinner when we’re on a date. Tip: If your date asks you out for a date, say yes. But if you feel like things aren’t moving forward, it’s okay to ask about the relationship. |
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| The relationship between the two is only on text messages:Maybe you really want to see him, maybe just have breakfast with him and a group of friends. Just seeing him is enough. But he only wants to text and decline the opportunity to see you, he doesn't want to take the relationship further. Tip: Maybe this is his busy time. Let him know you want to meet up when he has time. If he doesn't make time for you, skip this person. |
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| He said about other girls:You two may talk about other people including your ex but he talks constantly about women he finds attractive and appealing. If he wants to build a relationship with you, he will want to know more about you than talking about other women. Tip: If you hear about his current dates, it is obvious that he is dating someone else. |
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| Meet in public only:If the guy you like tries to avoid spending time alone with you, this is a red flag. Of course, he may want to take things slow, but he also may not want you to get the wrong idea about your relationship. Tip: Find out his favorite snacks and movies and plan a movie night at your place. If he ignores your intentions and doesn't want to come, move on. |
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| He maintains his personal space:Usually when you are with someone you like, you look for opportunities to be close to him whenever possible. Wanting physical contact is a natural reaction when you like someone. If you go to the movies and he sits far away from you or doesn't want to share a seat with you, he may be holding back on his personal space and creating a barrier with you. |
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| He makes no effort:When we like someone, we try to make a good impression on them. Pay attention to their appearance, do things they like, try to make them happy and surprise them with little surprises. But what if he forgets the things you like and you feel like you’re not important? You should love someone else. Tip: If you feel like the relationship is one-sided, even if it’s a friendship, you need to consider whether you’re wasting your time. |
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| How he introduces you:The easiest way to tell if you're in a relationship with him is to pay attention to how he introduces you to his friends and how they act when they meet you. If he introduces you as just a friend, chances are he doesn't want to be more than that. Tip: If he emphasizes that you're just friends in front of other women, pay attention to this sign. |
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| He looked at the other woman:If you like each other, especially in the early days, he won't notice anyone else but you. If you're around and he's paying attention to other girls, he probably doesn't want a relationship with you. He's definitely a player or still looking for a girl of his own. Tip: The guy you like should be looking at you, not other women. If his eyes wander, let him follow you as you walk away. |
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| Create opportunities for friendship:You may be disappointed to know that the person you like does not feel the same way, do not miss the opportunity to be friends. Of course, if you can not stop thinking about him, keep your distance, never be friends with the goal of becoming lovers later. |
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