Prejudices about wives that men need to change.
Deeply ingrained prejudices in men's thinking from ancient times have led to discord in married life. And this continues to this day.Many men still haven't been able to change these preconceived notions...
Housework is the wife's job.
Therefore, even when they are not busy, men still sit around while their wives are overwhelmed with countless chores. This is a habit of many Vietnamese men, and although modern society has somewhat changed this way of thinking, it is still only a minority.
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Today, women bear more responsibilities. They have to participate in earning money, taking care of children and the house, and constantly improving their knowledge... Therefore, husbands need to support their wives emotionally as well as share daily chores. This is entirely within the capabilities of husbands who truly love their wives.
Making decisions on your own.
Women need a capable and competent husband to manage important family matters. However, this doesn't mean the husband should ignore his wife's opinions. In marriage, mutual respect and agreement are essential for building a lasting family.
For any decision that affects the family, men should not forget to consult their spouse.
Staying up late and waking up early is a woman's job.
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When children are born, men tend to consider all childcare responsibilities to be the wife's. Therefore, even if the child cries in the middle of the night, the husband sleeps soundly until morning. Men, having been spoiled since childhood, have no concept of helping or sharing childcare responsibilities with their wives.
Nowadays, some mothers-in-law still hold the old view that it's women's work, and they often get annoyed when their sons get involved or even just help their daughters-in-law with taking care of the newborn. Because of this mindset, men feel entitled to sleep soundly while their wives handle everything.
She must be a traditional woman.
Men may enjoy drinking with friends, but the moment their wives pick up a glass of wine to drink with guests, they become furious and find it unacceptable. In their eyes, a wife must be a traditional woman: demure, well-behaved, with long hair, skilled in cooking, soft-spoken, polite, and obedient… Absolutely no image of a wife dressed casually and drinking with friends has ever crossed their minds.
According to Phununews




