Prejudices about wives and men need to change

The prejudices ingrained in men's thinking since ancient times lead to discord in married life. And until nowThere are still many men who cannot change these prejudices...

Housework is the wife's job.

So even when they are not busy, men still sit in one place while their women are busy with all kinds of nameless work. This is the habit of many Vietnamese men, although modern society has somewhat changed this way of thinking, but it is only a small number.

Nowadays, more responsibilities are placed on women’s shoulders. They have to participate in earning money, taking care of children, the house, and constantly improving their knowledge… Therefore, the husband needs to support his wife mentally as well as share the daily work. That is completely within the ability of husbands who know how to love their wives.

Decide everything on your own

Women need a capable and talented husband to manage important family matters. However, that does not mean that the husband ignores his wife’s opinions. In married life, respect and consensus are needed to build a sustainable family.

For any decision that affects the family, men should not forget to consult their partner.

Staying up late and waking up early is a woman's job.

When having children, men consider all the child care to be the wife's responsibility. So even if the child cries in the middle of the night, the husband still sleeps soundly until morning. Men have been spoiled since childhood so they have no concept of helping or sharing child care with their wives.

Nowadays, some mothers-in-law still maintain the old view: that is women's work, so they often feel uncomfortable when their sons participate or just help their daughters-in-law take care of the newborn. From that thinking, men give themselves the right to sleep soundly while their wives take care of everything.

Must be a traditional woman

Men can drink and party, but if their wives pick up a glass of wine to drink with guests, their husbands will get angry and it is unacceptable. In their eyes, their wives must be traditional women. They must be gentle, well-behaved, have long hair, know how to cook, speak softly, be polite, and listen well. There is absolutely no image in their minds of a wife who dresses comfortably, sits down to drink “one-on-one” with friends.

According to Phununews