How long is enough together?

There are milestones in your relationship that you should only spend a certain amount of time with before you reach them.

1. When two people are not officially in love or are in the process of getting to know each other

Ideal meeting time: Two hours/week.

Why? When you are in the stage of getting to know each other, if you are too enthusiastic, you will immediately be labeled as “like to rush the process”, which is not good at all. Therefore, you should not meet him for too long and too many times in a week. If you meet him during lunch, just passing by to say hello is enough. If you chat or text, you should be the one to end the conversation first. That way, he will be curious and want to learn more and talk to you more.

Be careful: During this period, you can easily feel “addicted” to him, so you should keep a moderate attitude and act like friends (you two are nothing to each other). It is best to keep a certain distance so that he can proactively get closer to you (for example, when you have texted, do not text again if he has not responded to the previous message).

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2. When two people first fall in love

Ideal date time: Two days/week.

Why? The first time in love is always the sweetest and most wonderful time, so if two people meet too much, progress too quickly, it will be easy for the relationship to "fade away". Going out alone twice a week is the ideal amount of time, just enough for the two of you not to go crazy (because you miss each other), while maintaining a meeting frequency that is not too dense.

Be careful: Meet, hang out, text, call 24/7. Guys are afraid of being tied down, dependent, and losing their freedom in this kind of love. Furthermore, if you only spend all your time with him and forget about your close friends, you will definitely be "sniffed" right away!

3. When two people have loved each other for a long time

Ideal meeting time: Three days/week.

Why? At this time, both of you will have to try very hard to maintain your relationship. Therefore, you should refresh it by having romantic outings (instead of inviting each other to stay home and eat popcorn and watch movies), giving each other interesting surprise gifts (instead of only giving gifts on birthdays and holidays). During those three days, you should also arrange outings with family, siblings, and friends, instead of just going out alone.

Be careful: Because when you love each other for a long time, everything will easily fall into a rut, making you both feel bored with love because it is too bland. Schedule a time to renew your love right away!

According to Phununews