The test of love

If he's not enthusiastic about meeting you at a coffee shop down the street and prefers to come to your house at midnight instead, be wary.

Very few women look deeply into their relationships in the way described below. If they did, they wouldn't be wasting time and energy on unproductive relationships.The two tests below are ones you should start using from the moment you begin dating, according toYourtango:

1. How much does he want to show you off to everyone around him?

Men are highly competitive, so they always want to show off something (or someone) they're proud of.If a guy buys a fancy sports car, he'll definitely tell all his friends, acquaintances, and even strangers about it. If he doesn't, something's definitely wrong.

If he truly loves you, he'll want everyone to know about you. This is a simple and highly effective test to see if he really loves you. Think seriously about it.

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2. The level of eagerness he has to spend time with you, even when he doesn't have the opportunity to have sex with you.

This is a favorite test of psychologist and love expert Gregg Michaelsen (USA) to determine whether you should commit emotionally and physically to a man: Obviously, he won't have a chance to have sex with you if you meet at a crowded coffee shop. If he truly loves you, he will readily come without hesitation (rather than only meeting late at night or in a secluded place).

Other ways to test his interest include asking him to drive you to the airport or inviting him to lunch with your mother.

"Girls, let me remind you of this – if you just use these two simple tests, your love life will be much less dramatic and painful, and the world will be a happier place, at least for women," says psychologist Gregg Michaelsen.

According to VNE