Women are most dangerous when they become indifferent.

Some people say that what they fear most about women is their tears. But in reality, women become most frightening when they are nonchalant and indifferent.

When tears become a luxury, and women calmly and unconsciously accept all the events that come their way, that is when no man, no matter how good and sincere, can melt the icy barrier that envelops their hearts.

It was heartbreaking, it was humiliating, it was a myriad of intangible and complex emotions. Yet, I still persevered through those years, never clinging on or pulling back even once. Because perhaps clinging or pulling wouldn't have made any difference; it was better to remain silent, to part ways peacefully like that.

Women can be carefree and enjoy life, but they must absolutely never be carefree in their suffering.

Women enjoy inflicting pain on themselves. They use their own emotional attachment as a barrier to separate themselves from the world around them. They feel guilty if they easily forget something, even if it's long gone. They don't allow anyone to get close, thinking, "If this person can hurt me, why can't someone else?"

So, because of one wound, they spend their days and nights digging into it, then cry out that they can no longer accept anyone else because the old wound hasn't healed. A wound will heal if left alone. Women can be carefree and enjoy life, but they should absolutely never be carefree in their suffering.

Youth is too short for self-reproach and blame. Amplifying pain doesn't bring happiness; it only brings boredom and disappointment to oneself and those around. Eventually, they will abandon someone who constantly wallows in past sorrows to find their own happiness, leaving behind someone who continues to sink into the abyss of bitter regret, never reaching the bottom.

By simply accepting the past, appreciating the present, and believing in the future, women will always be happy with what they deserve.

Women should understand that only when they know how to love themselves will they be worthy of being respected by others. And the first lesson in self-love is to live authentically. A woman's nature is to be innocent, optimistic, and believe in happiness.

By simply accepting the past, cherishing the present, and believing in the future, women will always be happy with what they deserve. Some people drift apart like that. It's better to do it gently, without resentment. Because they truly loved each other from the heart. They also felt pain, uncertainty, and desolation, but they knew how to accept it, choosing to quietly and gently part ways, preserving the most beautiful memories of each other.

An Nhien

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