Why do girls often like bad boys?

Many women believe that good guys aren't good in bed, while bad guys are very experienced in the bedroom.

Many women say they want a good man but end up with bad guys, only to break up because they can't stand it. Here are some reasons why girls often prefer "bad guys" and reject good men, according to Yourtango.

Excessive kindness can seem insincere.

Those guys are too nice. No one can be nice all the time unless they're a saint. They're too focused on showing kindness instead of being genuine, and women's instincts won't believe that. Player guys often seem more practical.

He's too kind and easygoing.

No one respects someone who lets anyone do whatever they want to them. Gentle guys don't set limits or make demands. Playboys don't let women mistreat or manipulate them. Women don't respect a man they can boss around. This lack of respect often goes hand in hand with a lack of attractiveness.

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Gentle men are predictable and monotonous.

Most people have monotonous, predictable lives, so they are drawn to those who are exciting and a little mysterious. The playboy type is always a challenge. The gentle guy is never. Things that are predictable are usually not interesting or worth exploring.

A preference for bad boys is a trait that's in women's genes.

Women are created to nurture. However, instead of doing this with babies, they often do it with playboys. Women think their love will reform these men. And obviously, men who are already "good" rarely need any reforming or help.

Women like to feel useful.

Good guys don't usually need "fixes." Bad guys, on the other hand, do, making them a "project" for women to invest in. Some women think that if they can create the perfect man, he'll never leave them. Similarly, if they're so focused on changing others, they don't look back and see what needs fixing in their own lives.

Good guys seem weak.

Women are unconsciously attracted to men with strong genes. Bad guys often subtly convey the message that they possess such strong genes. They believe their genes are so powerful that they don't fear losing a woman, even if they behave badly. The fear of losing the woman they desire, on the other hand, is what good guys send the opposite message.

Some women have low self-esteem.

Girls who lack self-confidence and self-love often feel intimidated and distrustful when others treat them too well. Therefore, they feel uncomfortable when kind men treat them well. Meanwhile, the bad behavior of unscrupulous men only reinforces their belief that they are unworthy...

Sex is also something that makes women pay less attention to good boys.

Women believe that gentle, well-behaved men aren't good at sex. Some even prefer rougher sex and think a decent guy can't take control and perform well in this area. A playboy, on the other hand, seems to have more potential in that regard.

Men all have their own kind of sex appeal.

Have you ever seen a playboy who wasn't attractive? Certainly, there are some, but they're rare, and usually they can't attract women with their bad behavior if they don't have an appealing appearance. Meanwhile, when a woman describes a nice guy, she might say, "He doesn't look hot at all."

The gentle guy is not attractive.

Gentle guys don't always know how to sweet-talk, and sometimes they don't know what to say at all. Meanwhile, players can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, there will come a time when they show their true nature, and the woman will be embarrassed to realize it, but find it hard to let go.

A good guy doesn't use brute force.

Historically, men have often protected women—both physically and otherwise. Delusionally, women believe that bad guys are more capable of protecting the weaker sex, while gentle men are less so.

Life is fair. The good guys will eventually realize how misunderstood they've been and find a way to fix it, while the women who chose the bad guys will also find that some of his attractive qualities can't completely mask his flaws.

According to VnExpress