Why do men still have affairs even though they have beautiful wives?

No woman is beautiful enough to keep a man faithful.

Countless successful and famous men are willing to ruin their marriages and careers for pleasure outside. Why do they do this, when they seem to have everything at home: beautiful wives, well-behaved children?

Here are some hypotheses:

1. Powerful men - those with more opportunities - are easy targets for seduction, whether their wives are attractive or not.

2. This just proves that trying to find the most attractive partner is a fool's game. When marriage begins, whether the husband and wife are beautiful or ugly does not determine whether they will be happy, sad, hurt, honest or unfaithful..

3. No woman is beautiful enough to keep a man faithful. Whether he will commit to the relationship or not depends on many other factors.

Below, let's take a look at some of the real reasons why many men still look for other women when they have beautiful wives:

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The third person was waiting.

Here’s the simple answer. When a man is looking for an affair, it doesn’t matter if he’s with a model-like beauty or a plain-looking woman. Sure, he prefers “models,” but they’re not easy to get. And usually, if they’re going to cheat, they’re going to find someone who’s ready for it. Regardless of how the other woman looks, she wants him and makes him feel comfortable. The man isn’t going to sit there trying to decide whether his wife is better or his soon-to-be girlfriend. He needs a change of pace, and there’s someone willing to give it to him, and that’s enough.

What the wife should do: Nothing. He's going to cheat, he's going to do it. The point is to ask yourself why you chose this man to be your husband.

Beautiful wife is capricious and difficult to please

If you are a narcissist and only love yourself, it will not take long for a man to get bored of you being so pretentious and self-effacing. Women who are overly pretentious often have deep insecurities, and the combination of the two makes men bored easily. Men are simple and most of the time they want simple things. A woman who is not too flashy and does not spend too much time in front of the mirror will have more time for her man.

What the wife should do: Stop. There are more important things than perfect hair or perfectly painted lips. Let him play with your hair, kiss your bare lips, and stop looking in the mirror every 45 seconds. Learn to be comfortable not looking 100% perfect, and he will appreciate it.

Beautiful but bad-tempered wife

If your looks are a 7, you can easily get a 10 if you have a lovable personality. But if you are a 10 but whine a lot, you might only get a 6. A man would rather be with someone who makes him happy than someone who is grumpy and mean despite being hot.

What a wife should do: Being grumpy, angry, and always looking for trouble is definitely not attractive. Your pretty face can turn ugly every time you open your mouth. Talk less if you don't have anything nice to say and be kinder to the people around you. Say "thank you" and smile more, not only to your husband but also to others.

Husband wants something new when wife is beautiful but boring

Dating a hot girl is always a thrill for men at that moment. He proudly wants to show off his beautiful wife to his friends and the world. But what happens then, when at the end of the day, you are just a mobile vase? Most men need more stimulation. Yes, men love with their eyes, and so porn is always attractive to them. But how many men watch the same porn movie twice? They always want something new. The food is delicious but enjoying it for a long time will get boring. Moreover, beauty fades faster than you think. If you are not cute, fun, interesting - he will get bored quickly.

What a wife should do: Relying solely on looks to keep a relationship going is like showing all your cards and hoping to win the game. Read, learn new things, have hobbies, travel, volunteer – do things other than just looking pretty for others to see.

The man wanted to leave his wife

Some men are cowards. Sometimes they want to leave you but they don’t know how. Most men cheat because of physical desire rather than emotional but in this case, his search for another woman may be just a trick. Sometimes he is having an affair with someone else just to make it easier for him to leave you.

What the wife should do: Dump him immediately and don't shed a tear. Give yourself another chance and know what not to do (or who not to choose) next time.

In the end, no matter how beautiful you are, when your husband wants to cheat, he will cheat. Of course, not all men are womanizers, even if you are flirtatious, whining or boring, he still won't find another woman. However, if he does, before blaming or complaining, first try to look back to see why your man cheated, you may be surprised at what you find.

According to VNE