10 reasons why she is indifferent about sex

Don't be quick to blame your wife because in reality there are many reasons why women don't want to enjoy "that thing".

Many lifestyle articles and magazines repeat that women have the same sexual desires as men and that they cheat at the same rate as men. The truth is, in the real world, that’s not the case.

According to Mensxp, many men complain that their women are no longer passionate about sex. Before you give up on her and seek satisfaction outside, read the following:

Women want love

Women are emotional creatures. It’s true that sometimes you want a relationship that’s just for fun, no strings attached. But then, her emotions come rushing in that sometimes you don’t even understand. Her happiness, sadness, and feelings towards you play a major role in whether she wants to have sex with you or not.

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She needs time

You may be hoping to turn your date into a hot night where you’re both horny and ready for sex. But, remember this, even if she’s ready for fun and sex, she may not be as ready for it as you are. Why? She needs time – to connect with you better, to get to know you and to know if she’s comfortable with you. And that means that the date will end with dinner, a kiss on the cheek, nothing more. Wait and make her feel comfortable and safe, and you’ll get what you deserve, otherwise, you’ll just make her feel insecure.

Women are easily distracted.

Anger, stress, frustration, a hard day at work, frustration - these things affect your woman like nothing you know. For men, these things disappear the moment you step into your private space or relieve yourself with a beer, a massage from your "other half" and the desire arises again. For her, these emotions can invade and completely overwhelm her. You may be the one to cook tonight, give her a massage and rub her feet, but don't expect it all to lead to sex, unless she really wants it.

Women are physically less likely to want to be as active as men.

Contrary to what feminist writers say, women are not as physically strong as men. At the end of the day, she is usually exhausted and exhausted, and you can’t blame her. The reason is simple, because most of her energy is spent on dealing with every little thing in life, thinking about every possible scenario – real or unreal – and deducing the consequences every second. And by the end of the day, your woman is so exhausted that she can’t even think about foreplay.

She judges herself

If she feels unattractive, fat, ugly, smelly, unattractive, sloppy, unworthy, she won't want to strip down and have fun with you. She doesn't think she deserves it. In fact, there are days when she puts on her least sexy pajamas to avoid looking in the mirror and seeing her body. On those days, don't force her to "make love", because she might cry and you certainly don't want that. Show her love, cherish her, and help her regain her confidence.

She is not interested.

For men, this plays a very different role. You can easily shut down the emotional part of your brain during sex. For women, sex is accompanied by emotions, and emotions are linked to sex. These two things are inseparable to her. Therefore, if she doesn't feel intimate with you, no matter how hot you are, she won't want to "make love" to you. Imagine this situation with men, and you will know the result.

She doesn't "love" you to punish you.

You do something wrong - forget to do the dishes, forget to buy her dessert, flirt with another girl, don't pay much attention to her at the party last night, or just say something you don't remember that she doesn't like. And she punishes you in a way she knows works - withholding sex. You'll beg her, keep asking her what's wrong and she won't say a word, until you do something amazing that surprises her and does what she wants. Then she'll give you the best sex she can. But until then, she'll punish you.

Age affects women a lot.

Of course, age affects men too, but usually later. For women, from their 30s to their 40s, desire begins to decline. So if you are dating or living with an older woman, don't blame her, her hormones are going down and she simply doesn't feel like it anymore. It's a biological law and quite normal, there's nothing wrong with it. You can limit the effects of age on your partner by trying to treat her better and make her feel young.

She is a feminist

And she will scold you for always demanding sex. She will probably cite the rules to make you understand that you can't always treat her like a sex object and that you can't treat her like a male chauvinist... She will lecture you about respecting women, treating women equally and many other things... until you become a feminist too.

According to VNE