10 taboo times parents should not scold their children

1. Don't scold children whenmorning

Morning is always the best time to plan and make new plans for the whole day. A good mood will make everything go smoothly. Therefore, parents need to help their children have a happy and comfortable mentality to welcome a new day.

Reminders can be postponed to another, more appropriate time of the day or week.

Greet your child in a warm and affectionate way instead of scolding them harshly in the morning, making them feel resentful and uncomfortable in the morning. The reminder can be postponed to another, more appropriate time of the day or week.

2. In a crowded place

If you want your child to become more and more shy, self-conscious, feel lonely and afraid when standing in a crowd, then parents should scold their child for their mistakes when there are many witnesses. But if parents want the opposite, then avoid this moment if you want to remind your child.

Because just like adults, children always have the need to be respected and express themselves. So parents should try to understand their children's thoughts and choose the appropriate way to behave with them when in a crowd or when guests come to visit...

3. Do not scold children during meals.

“Even lightning strikes you, you have to avoid mealtimes,” so no matter how angry you are, you should not yell at your child while he is sitting at the dinner table. First, your child will be scared or upset, which will affect his psychology, causing him to lose his appetite, eat less, and the food in his stomach will have difficulty absorbing nutrients, leading to stomach pain, stunted growth, and pale skin. Second, your child will gradually hate eating and family gatherings, and the bond between parents and children will also loosen.

Instead of scolding when children do something wrong, parents should just gently remind them because a meal only takes about 30 minutes, there is still plenty of free time to teach.

4. When parents are angry

When parents are angry, it is easy to want to scold someone as soon as they open their mouths. In this case, if parents bring up their children's problems to teach, they will easily hurt their children and destroy their image in their children's eyes.

At this time, parents need to calm down and teach their children about right and wrong.

5. When your child makes a mistake

The child said he would be home at 8 o'clock but was only home at 10 o'clock. In this situation, many parents cannot contain their anger. Just opening their mouths can lead to direct conflict between parents.

Parents' tolerance and generosity will make children consciously realize their mistakes.

Instead of making things complicated, parents should let things cool down and wait until the next day to hear the child's explanation. Moreover, parents' tolerance and generosity will help children consciously realize their mistakes.

6. When children know their mistakes and feel ashamed

How would parents feel if they knew their mistakes and learned from their mistakes but were still constantly scolded by others? Children feel the same way.

When children realize their mistakes and feel ashamed, but their parents continue to yell at them, it will only make them feel worse. They will lose their will to try harder, and even tend to lie and deny their mistakes the next time because they know for sure that even if they admit their mistakes, their parents will not forgive them.

7. When young, sick and lethargic

When children are sick, their moods will often become more irritable, more difficult to manage and of course they will not be able to fully absorb the scolding and reminders of their parents. In fact, children will feel more tired, miserable and take longer to recover from the illness. In addition, if parents yell at this time, the atmosphere in the family will become more stuffy and heavy for everyone.

When children are sick, they often become irritable, more difficult to manage, and of course cannot fully absorb the scolding and reminders of their parents.

8. Children are sleepy or at night

When children are about to go to bed or late at night, if parents scold their children harshly, it will greatly affect the quality of their sleep. Children will go to bed with a feeling of resentment and resentment, sometimes even causing them to have a stuffy nose because of tears and runny nose while crying or children are easily startled and have nightmares when going to sleep. And incomplete sleep also makes the next day of the child not as expected.

9. When children are happy

Let your children have happy moments, celebrate this joy with them first instead of scolding them for any mistakes. Because when happy, neurotransmitters will be released, creating good opening for the meridians. Scolding children at this time will cause sudden mental inhibition, causing harm to the body.

10. When young, worried and sad

When children are sad, they really need hugs, comfort and sharing from their parents. If parents do not know this and scold and yell at their children at this time, it will make their mood worse, creating invisible pressure on their emotions. So, help your children release negative emotions before trying to teach them something.

When children are sad, they really need hugs, comfort and sharing from their parents. If parents do not know this and scold and yell at their children at this time, it will only make their mood worse, creating invisible pressure that weighs down on their emotions.

Every child needs a “clean” environment to grow. And the creator of that environment is none other than the parents. Therefore, be smart parents, listen to your children and teach them properly.