11 differences between mature men and young boys

(Baonghean.vn) - A simple habit like waking up before 8am shows that you are more responsible for your life. That is one of the signs of a mature man. Let's test to see what threshold you are at?

1. Don't like noise

Young people often choose noisy places like pubs, billiards, and call their “comrades” to come and clink glasses happily. When it comes time to pay the bill, their faces are dejected and distorted. Then they go home and continue to complain on Facebook, “I’m poor”, “Why am I not rich like other people?”, “Where is your money?”…

Mature men like to gather friends for coffee so they can ask each other questions. Illustration photo

Most adult men often understand the value of hard-earned money, so they spend it more carefully and thoughtfully. Adult men like to gather with friends for coffee so they can ask each other about their health and share their life experiences. They appreciate the people around them more because sometimes the hustle and bustle of life unintentionally creates a distance between us and our loved ones.

2. Don't do everything to please others

You often see guys who will work hard just to impress women, some other men will taste wine to show off their elegance, or occasionally you will see some people who act smart to impress their boss and colleagues. Mature men will not be motivated by other people's thoughts, their only motivation is the desire to improve, to learn and develop in the way they want.

They exercise to become stronger and healthier, they read books and go to school to broaden their knowledge and gain skills in areas they find useful. In other words, they know who they are, what they want, and while they respect the opinions of others, they only take what they find most useful.

3. Prefer calling over texting

Texting is an activity you only see among young people. Illustration photo

One of the most recognizable traits of mature men is that they like things to be quick and easy. Texting is an activity that you only see in young people.

As we grow older, texting is seen as a rather time-consuming and cumbersome activity, and the issue being discussed becomes more lengthy, so it is best to talk on the phone to speed things up. If it is an important matter, it will be replaced by email.

4. Decisive in love

Young people don’t know what they want, they have no career, no goals, and they can’t have serious relationships. Because they don’t know what’s important. When it comes to women, they usually go after the hottest girl in their sights.

Men don’t, they always know what they want in a partner. Men have taste and they can recognize when they meet a good woman. Men respect women with mature actions, not empty words.

5. Sburp pain sickness

Mature men realize that they are not “supermen”. Illustration photo

Mature men are more aware of their health, they realize that they are not “supermen” and try to live a healthier life.

When you're young you may like carbonated drinks - finding a strong feeling even when choosing a drink.

6. Always wake up before 8am

A simple habit like waking up before 8am shows that you are more responsible for your life, or simply waking up early so that you can get more done in a day.

No matter how much you slept in before, once you step out into independent adult life, your body and will will realize the importance of waking up early.

7. Be less fussy about your clothes

No more time to groom yourself like young people, perhaps work and life are getting more and more busy, making you no longer pay much attention to them.

Choosing comfort and convenience while still being polite is always a priority. This is probably only for some young people who like simplicity, but the majority clearly have not thought about it.

8. Less dreaming

What mature men always desire is to create a solid and stable foundation for themselves. Illustration photo

Young people often think that flying high and flying far is the true life. No one says that is wrong, but each person has his or her own limits.

Obviously, mature men are not adventurous anymore. They have family, work, and many other things to worry about. What mature men always want is to create a solid and stable foundation for themselves.

9. Always worry about the future

Men must have a plan for their life and a vision for their future. Know how to set goals and work hard to achieve them financially, professionally and most importantly, emotionally. When committing to someone, men need to know how to build a solid foundation for the future, whether it is building a family or starting a business.

Those are things that cannot be asked of children, those who are timid in commitment, only think of their own interests, only know the present but are vague about the future.

10. Feel that parents' words make more sense

Mature men do not ignore their parents. Illustration photo

Youth, life is always bustling and it is also the time when your ego is promoted, the things your parents say at that time make you feel dogmatic and unrealistic, you always think you are right more than your parents are right, you even ignore what your parents say when you are young.

When I grew up and thought about it, I realized that my parents were right and always wanted the best for their children. After all, they have lived in this world for decades longer than you.

11. Understand the principle of "knowing when enough is enough"

Time, life, the need to have more or less in youth disappears, you realize that just enough is enough, then you have become more mature. When you have it, it is clear that you only want enough, more is tiring but less is also not possible.

Mature men always open their arms wide, accepting everything. Illustration photo

Normalize everything, leisurely walk on the chosen path with a calm mind. Open your arms wide, accept everything.

Whether it is bitter or sweet, whether the circumstances completely change your current life, be ready for it with everything you have. Because who knows what life will be like tomorrow? Because who knows how much time you have to live. The present life is all you have. Just live happily and well in the present, then why worry about what will happen tomorrow.

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