5 things parents need to apply if they want their children to become kind people
Raising children successfully is not only about raising them to be healthy and successful in their careers, but also about raising them to be responsible and compassionate people. To do so, parents should apply the following methods.
1. Encourage children to participate in volunteer activities
Volunteering is considered a great way for children to develop feelings for people around them. Encourage or join your children in some volunteering activities so that they can feel the real joy of doing good for others. You can start by helping the elderly, the lonely people, those who are still in difficulty around your family.
2. Share with people who are less fortunate
Show your children more difficult circumstances, friends of the same age who have struggled to make a living, lacking food, clothes, etc. Encourage your children to donate toys, clothes, books, and money they can save to charity. Through this idea, children will learn to share their belongings to help others. When children help their peers and feel the joy of giving love, they will be inspired and nurtured with compassion in their souls, gradually perfecting their personalities.
3. Maintain public hygiene and protect the environment
Teach your children never to litter. You can even pick up trash and throw it in designated bins. Do not break flower branches, step on plants, write or carve names on walls in the classroom or in public areas. At the same time, encourage them to participate in activities in their neighborhood such as cleaning the streets, helping the elderly cross the street, etc. to help children gradually develop awareness and responsibility for living in the community and performing useful actions for people around them.
4. Assign children to do housework to help their parents.
Children need to understand that they are also members of the family, living under the same roof, and their responsibility is to help their parents with housework. Assign children age-appropriate tasks from an early age, such as making their own beds, cleaning up toys after playing, clearing the table, wiping the table, sweeping the floor, washing dishes, etc. You should monitor and reward the completion of the child's tasks. Children will feel proud when sharing housework to help their parents.
In addition to the above, teach and guide children to do the following from an early age to help them shape their personality early:
- Say “please” and “thank you” everywhere, in every situation.
- Teach your child never to participate in bullying another child.
- Teach your children how to decide relationships with people based on personality, not skin color, gender, or ethnicity.
- Treat animals kindly. Do not allow children to abuse them.
- Say “sorry”. Children need to understand the importance of taking responsibility when they do wrong.
- Forgive. Never hold a grudge.
- Smiling is a form of kindness and it has a contagious effect.
- Besides, parents should become a role model for children.
Parents’ behavior has a strong impact on children’s personality. Children learn a lot from the gestures and behaviors they observe from adults. Instead of just telling your children about the benefits of caring and helping others, you should be a pioneer in doing this activity regularly so that children can observe and follow.
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