Singer Bang Kieu reveals for the first time about his girlfriend - Benly's mother

Bang KieuDoes being a father at nearly 50 change much?

Last year, Benly was still too young, this year he can walk and talk a lot. He is very naughty but having a middle-aged child is fun. My three older sons have more interests so they are not always close to their father. Coming home from work with a babbling baby makes me experience simple joys again.

First of all, my schedule is like an administrative person. Except for the time I perform, I go to bed with the baby at 9pm and wake up at 6:30am. Lately, I rarely hang out with friends, I just stay at home and take care of diapers and milk.

Bang Kieu and his fourth son.

As a singer, will the baby hear his father sing lullabies every night?

No, the baby sleeps by himself. My family raises our child in a traditional and modern way, a little bit of everything, I still pamper him a lot. Luckily, the baby has a musical talent like his older brother Beckham, just open the songFrozen DreamDad, I hum along. I sing along to the music all the time.

I don't sing lullabies, but I still bathe, change diapers, and feed the baby well. I must have practiced before, so I'm used to it now, and don't have to relearn. Of course, I only "support" the baby, but the baby's mother works in obstetrics and gynecology, so she takes care of the baby.

When interviewing him, many people told him not to ask about his girlfriend or he would get angry, but it's okay to ask about his children?

I'm not angry, I'm just shy because my girlfriend doesn't want me to, but I really want to show off! She doesn't work in the arts, lives a very private life, and doesn't like to appear in the press or on social networks.

Last time, when Benly’s family celebrated his birthday, his friends came to congratulate him. They were so happy that they took pictures and posted them on their personal pages. His girlfriend was the center of the picture, and there were also negative comments about her. She was sad for a whole week, and I had to comfort and console her.

We are artists, used to working in a “hot” environment, negative comments almost do not affect our mood or work. But my girlfriend is an outsider, suddenly receiving negative comments, she takes it very seriously. Later, I also told my friends to protect her.

What chance made an artist meet and fall in love with someone working in obstetrics?

I don’t know either, we got to know each other, talked, found a connection, and became attached. She’s never even heard me sing. Her idol when she was young was the “nightingale prince” Quang Vinh.

Love in middle age, is it still romantic or... romance?

Many people, especially Minh Tuyet, often say that I am indifferent to everything, even if the sky falls. But that is not necessarily true, I still take care of everything, it is just the way I show it, people think so.

Love is the same, I am very romantic at any age. Every holiday, I have lovely gifts for my other half. I just don't show it on the outside.

Girlfriend and ex-wife - Trizzie Phuong Trinh ever talked to each other?

They know each other, of course, but have not spoken directly. Occasionally they call their children in the US, they say hello on the phone and then stop. We are friends after the divorce, taking care of the children together, but now we both have other happiness, so I understand, rarely post pictures of my ex-wife on my personal page.

At this age, I find that the ups and downs of love are not so painful. I want everything to pass smoothly.

At the age of 50, Bang Kieu finds that the ups and downs in love are sometimes not too painful.

Girlfriend in Vietnam, will you continue your career in your homeland?

I don’t think too far ahead, I’ll just go with the flow. For now, my youngest child is still living with his mother in Vietnam, and when he grows up, we’ll think about it. I still like to travel, because that’s what my job is all about.

In America, my mother helped me take care of the house. She only stayed in Vietnam for a few months and then left because the climate in California was more suitable for the elderly.

I plan to take the baby to see my 3 brothers in the US but I can't go yet. Basically, the baby is just over 1 year old, I'm afraid the long journey will be tiring.

In the coming time, I will focus on performing a live show to celebrate 20 years of sharing the stage with Minh Tuyet. Live showBang Kieu - Minh Tuyet: Because I love youwill take place on two evenings: March 7-8, at the Vietnam-Soviet Friendship Cultural Palace.