Parents' behavior is incredibly harmful to children.
An individual's success is greatly influenced by surrounding factors such as the socio-economic conditions where the child is born, the living environment and the family's education.
Parents' attitude towards their children in the process of raising them is a direct factor affecting the child's future.
Parents placing too much expectation on their children will cause a lot of pressure on them. When they do not meet their expectations, many parents tend to get angry, scold and even beat their children when they see their children doing something wrong. Faced with this negative attitude, children become timid and always live in anxiety, afraid of doing wrong.
On the contrary, loving words are always an effective way to encourage a child. A child who lives in an environment where he or she is constantly told words of encouragement and motivation will become more confident in life.
Many parents often show suspicion and distrust towards their children. For example, when a child is punished by a teacher, parents often scold or ask questions like: "You must have hit him first, so he hit you", or "You must have done something wrong, so the teacher punished you". Over time, children will feel reluctant to share or fear that they will not be trusted, so they do not share with their parents. The relationship between parents and children will therefore become distant.
On the contrary, children who are always encouraged by their parents to express and trust, when they encounter any problem, they can always come to their parents to confide in them. Being close and listening will help parents become their children's confidants.
Punishment or negative words from angry parents can easily hurt children. In fact, children who often witness or endure abuse in the family are more likely to become aggressive and violent.
Therefore, parents should not let their children think that violence and aggression are normal in life. A child who enjoys patience from his parents will become more tolerant of those around him.
When living in a discordant family, children will struggle in a state of insecurity and have mixed negative emotions. If parents often argue in front of their children, it will unintentionally arouse their hot-tempered nature.
Many parents think their children have bad personalities, but they forget to look at themselves. Children's temper is influenced by their parents. If parents do not speak gently, children will learn from their parents that they cannot be gentle with others.
On the contrary, in a family educational environment, if children feel sincere feelings, respect and love, they will more easily share feelings and help those around them.
Criticism and criticism from parents for a long time will make children lose all confidence and always fear society. They will not believe in anything as perfect and always look at the negative points. On the contrary, children who are encouraged and supported will see everything more positively.
In fact, parents are always a mirror reflecting the daily habits of their children. Children will imitate their parents' behavior, listen and repeat what they see. Therefore, in any situation, parents need to control their actions so that children do not imitate or follow their parents' bad habits.
