The beautiful way a wife handles her husband's adultery is admired by thousands of people

Having shared how to deal with a cheating husband in a private group and gained the admiration of nearly 2,000 women, Van Giang, 29 years old, recently went to Hanoi to attend the group's year-end party. Once again, she spent 3 hours telling the story.story of overcoming my shock, which emphasizes the difference between tolerance and resignation.

Van Giang was born into a wealthy family in a central province. As a child, she suffered from typhoid and tuberculosis twice.In 10th grade, a month-long fever made Giang feel like she was dying. Later, she discovered she had systemic lupus erythematosus, a disease that prevents her from getting married and having children.

After finishing high school, Giang went to Bien Hoa to attend university, lived with her uncle, and devoted herself to Buddhism. Although many boys pursued her, she did not have any feelings for anyone because she was afraid of making them suffer.

The turning point in her life came when she skipped school to go to a coffee shop with her friends. There, she met Dung, who was one year older than her. He made her feel close to him."When I met him, all my defenses were gone. I burst into tears the day he confessed his love. I told him I couldn't have children, I didn't know when I would die, I told him everything about my illness. He said'Let me take care of you', and I gave him, and myself, the chance," the tall, slim woman said.

Their love grew stronger each time Dung took her to Cho Ray Hospital for a check-up. After three years of dating, Dung brought Giang home to meet his parents, but they strongly objected, even though at that time they only knew a part of her illness. However, in early 2014, they were determined to get together in a wedding.marry.

In August 2014, Giang gave birth to a child. The mother's health was poor, and the child's health was not any better. When he was just over 10 days old, he had pneumonia and meningitis. It was a difficult time for the young girl. She devoted all her energy to her child, neglecting her husband and herself with a skinny, frail body. Affectionate gestures between husband and wife were rare.

After Tet 2015, Giang began to notice strange signs from her husband: often holding the phone, buying new clothes, spraying perfume... She also felt that recently her husband had been less interested in his wife and children.

"I suddenly felt guilty. During this time, I didn't care about my husband, and we rarely had sex. I couldn't believe my husband could cheat. In my head, there were thousands of questions, 'Why?'", Giang recalled.

When she regained her composure, she asked a friend to print out a list of her husband's calls over the past two months. After filtering out all the numbers she knew, she narrowed down the list of unknown numbers and female colleagues, then bought a junk SIM card and called each number. If it was a man's voice, she would say it was the wrong number. If it was a woman's voice, she would pretend to have won a lottery ticket and ask for their address and name to give them a gift.

Finally, Giang found two suspicious phone numbers. The first two days, the person she followed was a female colleague of her husband and there was no sign of anything strange.The next day, she went to a smoothie shop. After observing for a while, Giang was startled when she saw her husband enter the shop and sit and talk with the shop owner for nearly 3 hours. "That girl was short, with average looks, except for her fair skin. At this point, I was shocked again, because my husband works in a special industry, if we weren't close, he wouldn't have sat there for so long," she said in a low voice.

That same evening, Giang read the message "I miss you", along with many other loving messages from the other girl's phone number in her husband's phone. At this point, she was sure her husband was having an affair.For a week she felt like someone had fallen from the sky, with mixed emotions. But having experienced many shocks of illness as a child, reading books likeThrow away your worries and enjoy life, Take a minute to look back at yourself, Think positively...butGiang gradually regained his composure.

She confided:"I look back at the past time, I have neglected myself and my husband too much. Thinking back on my illness, only he loves me, how great is his love to overcome the family's objections so that we can become husband and wife and have children.Because I still loved my husband so much, I reassured myself, 'He's just infatuated,' and determined to forgive him."

Once she made up her mind, Giang acted quickly. She sold the 3 taels of gold as a wedding gift for 10 million VND, used that money to buy dozens of high-end home clothes, got her hair done, and signed up for a gym. "I'm determined to gain weight within a month, the plan to win over my husband will take place on my birthday," Giang's voice was full of excitement.

On her birthday, Giang and her girlfriends organized a party at a restaurant. The moment her husband arrived at the party, he saw his wife transform from a nursing mother into the "queen" of the party. Giang also arranged for a 6-pack guy to bring roses and a gift box (a gym teacher, a gift prepared by Giang himself) to congratulate her on her birthday, not forgetting to give her compliments and affectionate eyes. "I told this guy in advance that no matter where I sit with my husband, he must sit opposite me and stare at me," she said with a laugh.

The birthday party was a success beyond expectations, making Dung jealous. Right after her birthday, Giang also went back to work at her parents' family company. She left early and came home late, her husband calledusually leave the machinebusy.

One evening about two weeks after her birthday, Dung called her, inviting her: "Can you come home early today? I asked my parents to look after the baby. Let's go out to eat and watch a movie! I haven't been able to take you since you got pregnant." Giang was happy inside, but replied calmly: "I'm very busy, I can't promise anything."

That day, although she really wanted to go out with her husband, Giang decided to come home at 8pm and just go out to eat, not watch a movie. That night, Dung whispered compliments on his wife's beauty, then recalled memories of their time together. At this point, she "turned the tables",Read clearly the address, name, and phone number of the girl her husband had a fling with a while ago.

"My husband was stunned for a few seconds, then argued and argued, and finally had to admit that he was just infatuated. I didn't care how far it had gone, but firmly said: 'I will only forgive you this one time. Without you, my children and I would still be living well, and maybe even better. The only one who suffered was you.' At that time, my husband only said one sentence: 'Thank you,'" the beautiful woman added.

After that incident, Giang realized that no matter what the situation, she needed to be proactive, especially being proactive financially would give her strength no matter what happened. Therefore, the young lady no longer relied on her parents but developed her own economy. Giang started a shop business. More than a year ago, she opened another company in the cosmetics industry.

Dung also began to change. He came home early, helped his wife cook, bathed the children, took care of his wife... Sometimes when he was jealous, he even took his wife to work and knew that his wife liked his dimpled smile, so he often used that to conquer her more.

Love gradually returned to Giang. But it was no longer the rosy days, but filled with responsibility, respect and understanding. The child was over 2 years old, and they had another baby girl. In the past two years, Giang's health has also been better than before.

Through her story, Giang wants to send a message to women.Honey, tolerance is different from resignation. If you love that person sincerely, you will have enough tolerance, but remember to be tolerant in a smart way, don't let that person hurt and trample on you again and again.

*Character names have been changed