Only with independence can women be attractive and happy.

Only when independent, women can have confidence, charm, as well as find happiness and balance in life.

Many young girls think that as long as they find a well-off husband, they can rely on each other in the future, and that a wife’s job is just to take care of the family without having to worry about finances. But when they become a disheveled mother, facing the daily worries of making a living and being deprived of personal interests and desires such as beauty and self-care, they realize that money has never been a matter of one person. At this point, an experienced woman will understand one thing: only by being independent can one find happiness.

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Decades ago, beauty icon Marilyn Monroe once said: “It is a mistake for a woman to expect a man to build the world according to her wishes without creating it for herself.” This saying is to remind her personally – a beautiful woman who always knows how to build her own values, to be independent and rise up, and at the same time convey a message to women, that they should become self-reliant, independent women. Don’t be a mistletoe, anchoring yourself on another tree, depending on objective factors to barely survive day by day.

Because for a woman, a sense of security will always be the first thing they want to seek. And today, that feeling only comes when they have built a certain position for themselves in society and family, not when they are a willow branch swaying back and forth around a man. A woman will have to worry about material things before thinking about love, from there, she can rest assured that no matter what happens in life, she still has a solid foundation so that she will not be knocked down or left empty-handed.

So, never forget to build your own career, create financial separation in your relationship with a man. At that time, women will be free in all spending decisions and their own personal needs, find a voice in family problems, have the right to express their own feelings. Instead of negative thoughts from being around the kitchen and children all day.

One more thing, every man wants to be proud when his wife is talented, intelligent, capable and resourceful. So if you want to win your husband's love, don't forget to become his pride in conversations with outsiders. Because even though women are independent and self-reliant to find their own happiness first, but the sweet fruit that comes with it is to collect more love from their partner, which is even more wonderful.

What about a girl who is independent and self-reliant in life? I would say that it is like a strong declaration of any girl about her own unique value. And independence is like a delicate, sparkling jewelry on her body, without the owner having to be self-deprecating at all, the other person will also feel the irresistible charm.

Just imagine, a girl with her own personality, a solid financial foundation and enough intelligence to make men go crazy for her, how could she not be attractive? And independent girls, when in love, often do not easily let a woman's weak instincts speak up. They control their emotions well, do not collapse, be miserable or jealous, fight. But gently and smoothly like a river, gently capturing a man's heart, making the other person melt and just want to be hugged and protected for life.

According to Phunuonline