Are men 'frugal with words' but often lie to their wives?

Disdain for women, debauchery, many social vices, frequent adultery... are the condemnable bad habits of the majority of Vietnamese men today.

1. Look down on women: What do women know!

In fact, women’s brains are not inferior to men’s. However, women are too busy with housework, childcare and countless other chores, so they do not have time to watch TV, drink and chat like men, so they cannot have “social knowledge” like men.

On big matters, men give themselves the right to decide and discuss among themselves, without allowing women to participate. If the positions were reversed, it would be impossible to predict.

It is men's contempt for women that makes women angry, irritable and then causes arguments. And women also want to show men that they are not inferior but do not have the opportunity, then men will naturally conclude: Women know nothing!

When seeing a successful, talented woman, men will immediately think that they need to use their body and rely on successful men to get ahead.

2. Consider housework as women's work

Life has become much more civilized and modern. Gone are the days when housework fell on women. Men often think that after working 8 hours at the office, they don't need to do anything at home. So, women - who are not as strong as men, also work 8 hours at the office, but when they come home, they have a mountain of housework, and can't sleep well at night because they have to take care of their children, their babies, their children being cold, their children wetting the bed...

How can women always love passionately with such heartless and selfish husbands? Men often think that women only need their husbands to give them their monthly salary to be loved by their wives...!? Because of the lack of love, all acts of caring and loving their husbands are just obligations, forced. And then forcing them will get boring, so women will just ignore it.

For men, it means that their wives don't want to control them, which is a pleasure... But when women no longer have feelings, they will also have affairs and look for men who love them.

3. No obligations to wife's parents

Men often think that “The daughter-in-law is the child, the son-in-law is the guest”. The daughter-in-law must serve her husband’s parents, the husband’s parents say no arguing, when getting married, you must obey your husband’s family in everything. As for the son-in-law, when he returns to his wife’s house, he is like a district magistrate returning to his hometown, if anyone does not please him, he has an excuse not to return next time.

But family affection is the same everywhere, maternal love does not distinguish between boys and girls, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law.

Parents also take care of their women for years, their efforts are countless, yet they have to ask permission to visit or take their children to their parents' house. When the husband's parents are sick, the daughter-in-law takes good care of them. When the wife's parents are sick, how many times does the son-in-law take care of them?

So, men should not use the word “duty” with women because they know what to do, but if it is accompanied by sincere feelings, no one can force them. As a man, how to behave so that your wife appreciates you, that is the difficult task.

4. Leave the children to the wife

Having children is a woman's responsibility, and they do not demand 100% fairness in this matter. What a mother needs to do, women will do without a single complaint.

But taking children out, teaching them, and picking them up from school are all things men with normal limbs and intelligence can do.

5. Jealous of wife

Whenever the wife earns more money, has a better job, or a higher position, the husband will definitely be jealous and find ways to put her down in front of others. Whenever the wife is good but the husband is a little bit worse, the husband will rush to criticize the other person, instead of being happy for her.

6. Adultery is a daily occurrence

There is a funny reality nowadays that men have come up with a new definition for adultery: only if you have sex with a girl is it considered adultery, but paying for sex and wiping your mouth is not considered adultery. More and more, adultery by men is becoming more public and more frequent.

Men nowadays, not all love sincerely and faithfully like in the past. Even if you do not want to, you will have to accept the fact that adultery is very common in today's society.

7. Brute force

Why would a strong man be violent towards a weaker woman? When a woman is not satisfied, beating her only makes her look down on men more. Let’s stop thinking “Teach your wife when she is young and helpless”.

8. Drinking and partying are a lot of social evils.

Men go out drinking and get drunk, come home and vomit and their wives have to clean up. The image of a drunk father in the eyes of his children is not good at all.

Men who smoke and drink alcohol: not only do they harm themselves, but their wives and children are also affected. When their sickly children are born, the mother is blamed for not having good milk or raising children well, but who would have thought that it was because their father's lineage had been influenced by all sorts of bad habits from the past.

Men gamble and play the lottery (they always say they do it for fun, but their wives don't find it fun at all). How can they teach their children like that, because men don't think it's bad...

9. Less romantic, less complimentary

The husband who, decades after their marriage, still maintains the habit of giving flowers and gifts to his wife on special occasions. Anyone who does that would have to hide it, otherwise others would laugh at them.

Strange, cheating on wife then show off, love wife then hide, what is going on?

10. Lying

If you want to go somewhere, tell your wife properly even if she nags you, but don't lie. Because if you lie and get caught just once, your trust will be shaken. Don't blame your wife for calling you all the time to check where you've been and what you've done, it's simply because you've lied before.

According to Health and Beauty