Men also need a shoulder!

Don’t think that only women need a man by their side, need someone to lean on when they are tired and frustrated, need a shoulder to lean on for comfort, to feel at ease in life. Knowing that men have to be responsible for their family, have to be the ones to take care of life, be the pillars of the family, but sometimes they also need more than anyone else a shoulder to lean on.

Women always label men as strong, then they think to themselves, men never get tired, never get lonely, never feel sad, never want to cry. No, men are like women, also weak, suffering from their own pain and the pain of others. Men also cry if they feel heartbroken and men also need a shoulder, a shoulder to lean on when they feel, this life has too many deadlocks.

Men also need a shoulder to cry on sometimes. (illustrative photo)

You know, since the day I fell in love with you, I always thought that when we get married, you and I will be a happy couple. We will live together, share the ups and downs. You also said that you will spend your whole life with me, be by my side, and try your best with me no matter what. No matter how difficult life is, I always believe that you are by my side.

But since we became husband and wife, the economic burden has been on our family. I work hard to earn money, and so do you. I appreciate all your efforts and hard work. I also think about my family so I have not been negligent for a single moment. All I can do is take care of you, our family, and our children. I am not as rich as others, but I know that wealth must be built with both hands and must be built up gradually.

We have overcome so many difficulties, now we have children, we have more motivation to strive. But all day long, you keep blaming me. You show yourself to be a strong, capable woman, but you are not romantic, not sweet to your husband like before. You are always grumpy, annoyed with me, and then blame your husband for not being the same as before.

We have overcome so many difficulties, now we have children, we have more motivation to strive. (illustrative photo)

There are times when I want to collapse, want to give up because of the pressure of life and work. I feel that if life continues like this, I will be extremely tired. I cannot continue to live with a wife who only cares about herself, always blaming her husband.

Look back at yourself, look back at yourself when judging others. There are times when I want to collapse, want to give up because of the pressure of life and work. Don't turn me into a desperate man. Please lift me up with sweet words of love, with emotional words, with affectionate gestures when we are together. That spiritual gift will help me be more steadfast in life.

When I'm sad, put your hand on my shoulder and say 'try harder', when I feel angry, tell me 'you look so ugly and old', when I yell at you, smile and say 'your husband has never been like that'. If only you could do that, I would be happy with you, wouldn't frown at you and would ease all the worries in my heart. Be the good wife you used to be, let me feel that this family is the most peaceful and loving place whenever I want to return...

According to Phununews