In modern society, building a safe, friendly and child-centered environment is not only the task of the education sector but also the shared responsibility of the family and the whole society. When children are listened to, respected and loved, they will develop comprehensively in both physical and mental aspects. From that foundation, children will know how to love their family, respect their teachers, cherish the traditional cultural values of the nation, to become useful citizens for the country.
On the occasion of International Children's Day (June 1), Nghe An Newspaper had a conversation with teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh - Teacher in charge of the Youth Union of Vinh Tan Primary School (Vinh City), member of the Provincial Youth Union Council, head of the Club for developing folk singing of Vi and Giam - Nghe Tinh for students in schools.
PV: Many people still say that in modern society, children are more materially well-off but more vulnerable mentally. As someone who has worked for many years in the Young Pioneers and primary school education, do you agree with this statement?
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh:I completely agree with that statement. It can be said that children today are living in much better material conditions than before. They study in a spacious, modern environment, and most of them have their material needs fully met – from beautiful clothes, modern toys, to advanced technological equipment.
But in some ways, they lack the space to be heard, the time to be understood, and the real emotional connections with their parents, teachers, and friends. This creates a paradox: They have more, but are more lonely and vulnerable.
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh (teacher in charge of the Youth Union of Vinh Tan Primary School) - Member of the Provincial Youth Union Council in an extracurricular activity teaching Vi and Giam folk songs to students. Photo: Thanh Quynh
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), about 10-20% of adolescents have experienced at least one mental disorder, of which depression is the most common. In Vietnam, the rate of children suffering from depression is estimated at about 5-8%. This number reflects a worrying reality about the mental health of children and adolescents in the context of modern society.
I have heard some of my students confide that, although they live in a well-off family, with parents who pay close attention to their children's studies, they lack time to listen to their feelings. They are expected a lot, but are rarely asked: "Are you happy today?", or simply "Do you need any help from your parents?". Gradually, they withdraw, find it difficult to share and are sensitive to any comments. I think that the lack of material things is not as harmful as the lack of connection and sharing at the right time.
Students eagerly participated in the activity of practicing singing Vi and Giam folk songs. Video: Thanh Quynh
Another factor that cannot be ignored is the increasingly obvious influence of technology on children's mental life. It can be said that technology is not bad, in fact, if used correctly, it is a very useful tool. However, many children are dependent on the virtual world, leading to a decrease in the ability to connect in real life and are easily affected negatively by online interactions.
Therefore, educating children about their spiritual life today needs to be given due attention. In order for children to feel loved properly, they will be steadfast, confident and know how to spread love back to their family, friends, homeland and life.
Students in the Vi and Giam Folk Song Club, headed by teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh, have won many high prizes at city and provincial competitions. Photo: Thanh Quynh
PV: You assert that children need to be given proper attention, so what do you think is the right amount?
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh: In my opinion, “the right amount” is not only enough in quantity, but also must be right in method and come from subjects that play an important role for children. In the current context, we cannot take care of children just by providing more material things, but need to pay attention to deeper needs – that is, psychological needs according to age, understanding, sincere feelings and true love.
To achieve this, there needs to be close coordination between family – school – teacher – and community. For teachers, “the right level” is not just about imparting knowledge, but also about teaching with all your heart: patiently listening, tolerant of mistakes, and helping students believe in their own worth. For schools, “the right level” means building a friendly learning environment – where students can be themselves, are encouraged to be creative, and where mistakes are not considered failures.
The education sector is currently pursuing the motto of “taking students as the center”, aiming at creating an ideal learning environment, aiming at the comprehensive development of students and improving the quality of education. This motto is expressed in many aspects: From innovating programs and teaching methods, to promoting the role of teachers, families and society in accompanying students on their journey of learning and growing up.
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh
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Proper care for children is when every adult puts themselves in the child's shoes, to understand what they need, what they fear and what they expect.
Then, love will no longer be a theory, but a practical action, every day, every little thing.
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh
For families, proper care does not stop at providing adequate material care, but is also demonstrated through understanding the moods, interests, emotions and social relationships of children. Parents need to accompany as friends, instead of always standing in a superior position. Sometimes, just 15 minutes sitting with children every night - reading books together, listening to children tell stories - is much more valuable than expensive gifts.
For society, proper concern is creating healthy living spaces for children - from community playgrounds, public bookcases, to proactively protecting them from the risk of early exposure to harmful content online.
Love spread at the right time has brought practical sharing to many children in difficult circumstances, becoming a solid support both spiritually and materially for them to rise up in life. Photo: Minh Khoi
PV: On the other hand, what do you think we should do so that children not only know how to receive love, but also know how to appreciate and be grateful for the care of others, so that they can spread that love into concrete, practical actions in daily life?
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh:First of all, we need to create an educational environment that is imbued with love and role models from the adults around us. Children learn a lot through observation, so parents, teachers and family members need to become living examples of love, sharing and gratitude – demonstrated through every small action in daily life.
Besides, life skills education is an essential factor, helping children understand that love is not just an emotion, but needs to be expressed through specific actions: Helping others, sharing with friends, and being responsible for themselves as well as the community.
In addition, encouraging children to participate in social and volunteer activities from an early age will help them realize that love needs to be spread through practical actions. From there, children will gradually form positive living habits, knowing how to appreciate what they have. When children are grateful and willing to contribute to the community, it is a solid foundation for them to develop a comprehensive personality and become responsible citizens in the future.
Students understand more about history and love their country more through activities about their roots. Photo taken at Kim Lien National Special Relic Site (Nam Dan). Photo: NVCC
As a member of the Provincial Youth Union Council, I see that schools in the province are increasingly having practical activities to arouse in students love, awareness and responsibility towards the community.
These values are cultivated through meaningful programs such as gratitude activities on major holidays of historical and cultural significance to the nation such as War Invalids and Martyrs Day (July 27), Southern Liberation Day, National Reunification Day (April 30), Uncle Ho's birthday and death anniversary... At the same time, practical activities are organized such as returning to the source at red addresses, visiting families of war invalids and martyrs, participating in the "Repaying gratitude" movement, organizing extracurricular activities, interacting with historical witnesses and talks on gratitude. These occasions are not only opportunities for students to review traditions, remember the great contributions of previous generations, but also help them deeply understand the value of freedom, peace and appreciate the good things in current life.
At the same time, the school closely coordinates with youth teams, groups and clubs to organize many programs to support poor students to overcome difficulties, award scholarships, and at the same time, equip them with the necessary knowledge and life skills to confidently rise up in life. These activities have helped students in difficult circumstances to be empowered and created an environment for all students to practice the qualities of sharing, empathy and social responsibility in a practical and effective way.
Nghe An currently has nearly 500,000 team members, teenagers and children studying at more than 880 schools across the province. Photo: Thanh Quynh
PV:It is known that you have spent more than 10 years of dedication maintaining the Nghe Tinh Vi and Giam Folk Singing Development Club for students. According to you, what values does bringing folk songs into extracurricular educational activities bring to students in shaping their personality and fostering love for their homeland and national culture at the present stage?
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh:Bringing Vi and Giam folk songs into extracurricular activities is a gentle yet long-lasting way of education. Children are exposed to traditional cultural values through lyrics, melodies, lessons about affection, loyalty, filial piety, village and neighborhood affection, etc. Participating in singing, performing, and learning about the history and circumstances of each melody makes them not only understand but also feel proud that their homeland has a heritage recognized by UNESCO. These things contribute to the formation of personality, practice subtlety in behavior, and nurture pride in the cultural origins of their nation.
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh and students in the Nghe Tinh Folk Song Development Club. Photo: Thanh Quynh
What makes me extremely happy is that from the club itself, many students have shone and affirmed their value. We can mention Le Thi Tra My (born 2007, Vinh My - Vinh Tan block), who won the A Prize of "Son Ca's Singing" at the city level in 2014 with the song Xam Nghe; or Nguyen Thi Le Na (Nam Cat - Nam Dan), who won the Provincial Promising Award in 2017.
Recently, many students such as Le Sy Luan, Bach Khanh Linh, Nguyen Tra My, Nguyen Khanh Vy... have also won the Provincial Promising Award in 2023 with folk songs about Uncle Ho and family and homeland affection. These achievements are not only rewards for personal efforts, but also vivid proof of the vitality and lasting educational value of folk songs in schools.
Teacher Bien Ngoc Khanh (front row, 4th from left) at the "Nghe An teachers following Uncle Ho's teachings" commendation ceremony in 2025. Photo: NVCC
It can be affirmed that in the age of technology, when many children are easily drawn into the virtual world, folk songs are the thread that keeps them connected to what is real, close and rich in humanity. I believe that cultivating love for the homeland and national culture must start from simple, natural things like that. And folk songs - with all their simplicity and depth - are one of the silent but very persistent "teachers" in the journey of educating the souls of today's young generation.
PV: Thank you for the conversation!
After more than 13 years of working as a teacher in charge of the Youth Union, member of the Provincial Youth Union Council and head of the Nghe Tinh Vi-Giam Folk Song Development Club for students in schools, Mr. Bien Ngoc Khanh (born in 1986) has won many awards such as:
2 Certificates of Merit from the Central Council of Young Pioneers for "Excellent achievements in Young Pioneer work and children's movements in the 2021-2022 and 2023-2024 school years"; Certificate of Merit from the Nghe An Provincial Labor Federation; Won First Prize in the "Excellent Teachers as General Team Leaders at the provincial level in the 2023-2024 school year" Contest; Certificate of Merit from the Chairman of the Provincial People's Committee for a performance that won A Prize at the 5th "Folk Song Singing in Schools" Contest of Nghe An province in 2023; Gold MedalNguyen Du's 230th Anniversary Festival in 2016; Title "Nghe An Teacher Following Uncle Ho's Teachings" in 2025...
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