Say 'no' to 3 types of rice, 3 types of love and 3 types of people

Even if there are a hundred things you don't want, a thousand things you don't like, still remember these things to be calm and composed in life.

Letting go of resentments and anger in life is not something that everyone can do, but once you can release that burden in your heart, you will become more tolerant and generous with everything in life. Look at everything lightly and calmly face the storms...

1. Eat too much

Health must be considered the top concern of each person. Therefore, even eating and drinking habits must be paid attention to, do not eat too much, do not eat quickly, do not drink quickly. When holding a bowl of rice to eat, remember to eat and drink just enough for your stomach and blood pressure. Our ancestors said: "Trouble comes out of the mouth, illness comes in through the mouth" has the same meaning.

2. Eat greasy foods

Hundreds of diseases originate from fat, all kinds of fat are foods that contain a lot of energy, accumulating in the body for a long time will turn into fat. For health, this is a very dangerous problem, so you need to limit foods that are high in fat, the more you eat, the higher the risk of disease. Instead, you should eat more boiled dishes, dishes without oil to protect your health.

3. Eat and entertain guests, create relationships

In work, if you want to have smooth sailing and get promoted, you must definitely expand your relationships. Therefore, sometimes you cannot avoid invitations to eat, drink, and slowly discuss things. It is best not to eat this kind of food, unless you cannot refuse. If you can do something, do it, if you cannot, refuse it outright. Do not be too considerate or hesitant, forcing yourself to make things difficult.

There are 3 types of love that should not be touched.

1. Be a middleman

As work relationships increase, it is obvious that emotional problems will arise. Friends and relatives will tend to seek our advice on emotional and behavioral problems. But it is best that we do not interfere in these matters.

Love is a delicate matter, saying the wrong thing can cause resentment, doing the wrong thing can cause regret for the rest of your life. When two people have conflicts that cannot be resolved, it is very difficult to get along with each other, sometimes you intervene and make the situation worse. Human love is a complicated thing, not easy to predict.

2. "Falling in love" with someone outside

For some people, when family life becomes less peaceful, or their partner is too passionate about work and neglects taking care of the family, or the two of them have long since stopped being able to sit down and share, they begin to look for joy outside, starting with feelings for and "falling in love" with someone else.

But remember that at this age, just one moment of not being alert and going the wrong way can mean all the efforts of the past decades, such as family, career, children, will be in vain. "Falling in love", liking someone who is not your spouse is the first step leading people to the path of adultery, betrayal.

3. Don't love someone with too much age difference

There are some young men who like to love older, experienced women, while there are some young women who like mature, stable middle-aged men. So there often appear the types of sisterly and uncle-niece relationships.

With relationships with such age and generation gaps, once you enter them, it is very difficult to get out. Moreover, in many cases, you are either cheated out of money or cheated out of love, which in the end leads to lifelong regret.

There are 3 types of people you should not associate with

1. Indecent person

Middle age is the time when the most emotional risks appear, men have affairs, women have husbands but are not faithful. But many people do not understand that this is a moral degradation, on the contrary, they like to hang out with people like "men eat meat, women eat spring rolls" like that. They are not happy and are ready to nod to outside relationships.

Sometimes, due to not understanding carefully or because of a moment of infatuation, we naturally become the third person, the person who increases the risk of breaking up the happiness of another family. With those who are not serious in love, have an appropriate attitude, polite but decisive, should not just because of a moment of discouragement that you have a lifelong reputation.

2. People with depraved lives

People who live in depravity, immersed in vices, bad habits, and vices have lost their own goodness. If they do not cherish their own lives, then do not expect them to cherish others. Our ancestors said: "Near ink, you will be black, near the lamp, you will be bright" is absolutely true.

3. People with erratic temperaments

People with erratic temperaments cannot control their emotions, and are unpredictable in their happiness and sadness. They are also quite selfish and often conservative. When they are successful, they do not have the habit of helping others, but when they are down and out, they often ask for help. They are a type of multiple personality, unstable, impatient, easily hurt others and intolerant.

By middle age, you can clearly distinguish between good and bad people, good and bad people. You should probably be careful with these types of people. If you do interact, keep a normal relationship, no need to be too familiar. If you don’t interact, it’s best not to seek them out or become close friends in the future.

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