Worry

During the week, despite devoting themselves to football, netizens still took the opportunity to discuss a statement that vaguely expressed concern in the form of cells by a certain public servant, roughly saying: "Inspecting too many prosecutions also reduces the morale of officials and civil servants". A statement that I believe would have received much attention if names like Park Hang-seo or Cong Phuong had not "interjected" it. Right or wrong? Wrong or not wrong? Should or should not? The questions were gradually turned into wild questions. It was just people gossiping, like "The shouts resounded in the mountains and forests, why is no one answering?" Netizens have always been so frivolous, when something happens, they make a big fuss for a while, blabbering questions on the keyboard, then quickly putting it aside to... make a big fuss about something else.

Returning to the statement of that official, it is natural for him to worry. He is concerned about the thoughts and aspirations of his people, let alone the negative psychological development of his subordinates. It is true that in previous lives, each person worries about an event in a different way. Even within the same person, facing the same problem, each time makes people worry differently. It can be worry, but sometimes worry leads to anxiety, sometimes worry leads to fear, sometimes fear leads to worry, and sometimes worry leads to... bribery!

“A lazy kitchen has no ash/A lazy person doesn’t want to worry or work.” When young, worry about studying, worry about training and striving. When grown up, worry about building a family, worry about children, worry about finances, worry about career… When old, worry about illness, worry about the church, worry about ancestors’ graves, and of course worry about… funerals. Someone once said, only death can end worries - Right! But not sure!?

If you are not sure if you will stop worrying when you die, then you must worry when you live. Worrying about cadres and civil servants being discouraged is not a worry of the poor, nor is it a seasonal worry. It is a constant worry of those in charge. Right? Our ancestors have a saying: "One person worries as much as a thousand workers". Perhaps, in addition to expressing the simple principle of labor, this is also a message for managers. The responsibility rests on the shoulders of the "worrier", and the benefits seem to be the same. Worry about how the "workers" have food and clothing. Worry about how the agency is united and peaceful. At the beginning of the year, they "worry" about plans, in the middle of the year, they "worry" about targets, at the end of the year, they "worry" about emulation, "worry" about going to Tet...

The global era also has cross-border worries. Occasionally, when the weather changes, the person holding the nuclear button sneezes and has a runny nose, all of humanity frantically tries to find a way to pull the firewood out of the pot. The stock market, the oil market, and even the gold market are in turmoil. A victim who died on the other side of the world due to Ebola also makes a vegetable seller in the countryside lose sleep and appetite. Fishermen go out to sea with the fear of “strange ships”, melon growers are worried about output. Economic groups worry about trade wars, depositors worry about banks “not paying”, apartment dwellers worry about fires, and people living in townhouses worry about flooding. When a team has not yet played, they worry about losing, when a team wins, they worry about “going on a storm”.

Sometimes, there are also double worries: worrying about tuition fees for children and worrying about hydropower plant releasing floodwaters. There are also worries that fall from the sky. Each reservoir is a water bomb hanging worries over the downstream. Worry, so much worry! Worry is interwoven through human relationships. Worry about the heartless who take advantage of worries to control, to threaten and to profit. Remember, before the “doomsday” last year, people rushed to buy instant noodles, flashlights, helmets, and then through the “doomsday” they struggled to… pay off debts!

Anxiety is a state of being very uneasy about a certain issue, a fearful reaction to a real or imaginary scenario. In essence, anxiety is a normal emotion that everyone has to go through. Worrying about a dangerous situation is useful. However, when there is no danger but anxiety still forms, it is locked and carefully camouflaged in a separate corner of the brain, it can become a disease. I have an uncle who discovered a tumor on his chin. For more than 3 years, he did not go to the doctor because he was afraid of cancer. All this time, he went online to learn about the tumor, the more he read, the more he thought he had cancer, the more he thought he had cancer, the more he was afraid to go to the doctor. For 3 years, he lived in fear until last August, he caught a cold, the whole family took him to the hospital and conveniently tested the tumor. Thank God, the tumor was benign. The doctor only did a minor surgery, and he was discharged after 2 days. As if he had found gold, my uncle concluded with a straightforward sentence: "If I had known, I would have gone for a test a long time ago". That's it. Either we face the truth no matter how harsh it is, or we bury ourselves in the hell of fear. Try to control your fear while you still can, don't let it control you. I'm worried that the disease of achievement will turn a part of teachers into the fear of students, I wonder if the Ministry is worried?

The word “lo” is used more flexibly nowadays. The most “mean” thing is that people use the word “lo” instead of the word “chay”. Like “lo” for your nephew to get into the C… industry, “lo” for your brother to go abroad for medical treatment; “lo” for both paternal and maternal sides to get 2 fake wounded soldiers; “lo” for your nephew to have his sentence reduced; “lo” for your secretary to get into the A2 planning. There are people who worry forever, worry until they are exhausted but still can’t do it, so they joke that worrying about anything is not as good as worrying about something big. That’s just a joke!

Last year, Sa Pa was freezing cold, and some young people happily checked in and took photos next to the mountain farmers who were smacking their lips as they watched their lush vegetable gardens being torn apart by the cold. Sometimes, one person's joy is another person's sadness. One person's success is another person's worry. The fight against corruption is affirming the great determination of the Party and the State. The affirmation of "no forbidden zones" is even more heartwarming for voters nationwide. But for the owners of those whose hands have been stained with ink, this is not necessarily good news. With worries and fears, some people who cannot live with the worries for life have been forced to consider "abandoning their property and running away" by "preparing" for themselves a second nationality. Man proposes, God disposes, and man's net is smaller than God's net.

If we don’t fight corruption, we’ll worry about “breaking the battle”, if we don’t fight it well, we’ll worry about “breaking the vase”. The voters are pleased with the “unprecedented” results, but there are also those who are scared out of their wits several times a day. The concept of “safe landing” has become a thing of the past, the “burning furnace” war has called out the names of those who thought they were enjoying the countryside more than once. That is also the worry that the owner has to pay for life, the worry of being recorded in debt from the glorious past.

In a recent statement, the head of the anti-corruption campaign, Danh Thet, declared: “In the fight against corruption, whoever is discouraged should step aside and let someone else do it.” Yes, don’t be discouraged, and don’t “worry.”

Our ancestors have a saying: “Eating fish sauce makes you snore, eating beef makes you worry”. I don’t know if people eat “fish sauce” or “beef”, but the “stove” is so hot that it’s hard to “snore”. The statement that the author mentioned at the beginning of the article is the statement of a responsible and far-sighted person. However, if you worry, you have to… worry. Worrying is valuable, but you don’t need to worry too much. Worrying too much sometimes turns into worrying… white teeth.