Worry

During the week, despite dedicating themselves to football, netizens still took the opportunity to discuss a statement that vaguely expressed concern in the form of cells by a certain public servant, which roughly said: "Inspecting too many prosecutions also reduces the morale of officials and civil servants." A statement that I believe would have received a lot of attention if names like Park Hang-seo or Cong Phuong had not "interposed" in it. Right or wrong? Wrong or not wrong? Should or should not? The questions were gradually abandoned. It was just people gossiping, like "The shouts resounded in the mountains and forests, why is no one answering?" Netizens have always been so frivolous, when something happens, it makes a big fuss for a while, gesticulates the question on the keyboard, then quickly puts it aside to... make a big fuss about something else.

Returning to the statement of that official, it is natural for him to worry. He is also concerned about the thoughts and wishes of his people, let alone the negative psychological development of his subordinates. It is true that in life, each person worries about a problem in a different way. Even within the same person, facing the same problem, each time makes people worry differently. It can be worry, but sometimes worry leads to anxiety, sometimes worry leads to fear, sometimes fear leads to worry and sometimes worry leads to bribery!

“A lazy kitchen has no ash/A lazy person doesn’t want to worry or work.” Young people worry about studying, training, and striving. When they grow up, they worry about building a family, taking care of their children, worrying about finances, and career… When they get old, they worry about illness, the church, the ancestors’ graves, and of course, they worry about… the funeral. Someone once said, only death can end all worries - Right! But it’s not certain!?

If you are not sure that you will stop worrying when you die, then you must worry when you live. Worrying about cadres and civil servants being discouraged is not the worry of the poor, nor is it a seasonal worry. It is a constant worry of those in charge. Right? Our ancestors have a saying: "One person worries as much as a thousand workers." Perhaps, in addition to expressing the simple principle of labor, this is also a message for managers. The responsibility rests on the shoulders of the "worrier", and the benefits seem to be the same. Worry about how the "workers" have food and clothing. Worry about how the agency is united and peaceful. At the beginning of the year, "worry" about plans, in the middle of the year, "worry" about targets, at the end of the year, "worry" about emulation, "worry" about going to Tet...

The global era also has cross-border worries. Occasionally, when the weather changes, the person holding the nuclear button sneezes and has a runny nose, all of humanity frantically tries to find a way to pull the firewood out of the pot. The stock market, the oil market, and the gold market are in turmoil. A victim who died on the other side of the world due to Ebola also makes a vegetable seller lose sleep and appetite. Fishermen go out to sea with the fear of "strange ships", melon growers are worried about output. Economic groups worry about trade wars, depositors worry about banks "not paying", apartment residents worry about fires, and people living in townhouses worry about flooding. When a team has not yet played, they worry about losing, when a team wins, they worry about "going on a storm".

Sometimes, there are also double worries: worrying about children's school fees and worrying about hydropower plant flooding. There are also worries that fall from the sky. Each reservoir is a water bomb hanging worries over the downstream. Worry, so much worry! Worry is interwoven through human relationships. Worry about the unscrupulous people who take advantage of worries to control, to threaten and to profit. Remember, before the "doomsday" last year, people rushed to buy instant noodles, flashlights, helmets, and then through the "doomsday" they struggled to... pay off their debts!

Anxiety is a state of being very uneasy about a certain issue, a fearful reaction to a real or imaginary scenario. In essence, anxiety is a normal emotion that everyone has to go through. In the face of a dangerous situation, anxiety is useful. However, when there is no danger but anxiety still forms, it is locked and carefully camouflaged in a separate corner of the brain, it can become a disease. I have an uncle who discovered a tumor on his chin. For more than 3 years, he did not go to the doctor because he was afraid of cancer. All this time, he went online to learn about tumors, the more he read, the more he thought he had cancer, the more he thought he had cancer, the more he was afraid to go to the doctor. For 3 years, he lived in fear until last August, when he caught a cold, the whole family took him to the hospital and conveniently tested the tumor. Thank God, the tumor was benign. The doctor only performed a minor surgery, and he was discharged in two days. As if he had found gold, my uncle concluded with a straightforward sentence: "If I had known, I would have gone for a test a long time ago." That's it. Either we face the truth no matter how harsh it is, or we bury ourselves in the hell of fear. Try to control your fear while you can, don't let it control you. I'm worried that the disease of achievement will turn a part of teachers into the fear of students, I wonder if the Ministry is worried?

The word “lo” is used more flexibly nowadays. The most “mean” thing is that people use the word “lo” instead of the word “chay”. Like “lo” for your nephew to get into industry C…, “lo” for your brother to go abroad for medical treatment; “lo” for both paternal and maternal sides to get 2 fake wounded soldiers; “lo” for your nephew to have his sentence reduced; “lo” for your secretary to get into the A2 planning. There are people who worry forever, worry to the point of exhaustion but still can’t do it, so they joke, worrying about anything is not as good as worrying about something big. That’s just a joke!

Last year, Sa Pa was freezing cold, and some young people were happily jostling to check in and take photos next to the mountain farmers who were smacking their lips as they watched their lush vegetable gardens being torn apart by the icy cold. Sometimes, one person's joy is another's sadness. One person's success is another's worry. The fight against corruption is affirming the great determination of the Party and the State. The affirmation of "no forbidden zones" is even more heartening for voters nationwide. But for the owners of those whose hands have been stained with ink, this is not necessarily good news. With worries and fears, some people who cannot live with the worries for life have been forced to consider "leaving their property and running away" by "preparing" for themselves a second nationality. Man proposes, God disposes, and man's net is smaller than God's net.

If we do not fight corruption, we are worried about “breaking the battle”, if we do not fight it well, we are worried about “breaking the vase”. The voters are pleased with the “unprecedented” results, but there are also those who are scared several times a day. The concept of “safe landing” has become a thing of the past, the “furnace burning” war has called out the names of even those who thought they were enjoying the countryside more than once. That is also the worry that the owner has to pay for life, the worry of being recorded in debt from the glorious past.

In a recent statement, the head of the anti-corruption campaign declared: “In the fight against corruption, whoever is discouraged should step aside and let others do it.” Yes, don’t be discouraged, and don’t “worry”.

Our ancestors have a saying: “Eating fish sauce makes you snore, eating beef makes you worry”. It is not known whether people eat “fish sauce” or “beef”, but the “stove” is so hot that it is hard to “snore”. The statement that the author mentioned at the beginning of the article is the statement of a responsible and far-sighted person. However, if you worry, you have to… worry. Far-sightedness is valuable, but you don’t need to worry too much. Worrying too much sometimes turns into worrying… white teeth.