MC Van Hugo reveals for the first time her unexpected married life

Following your life recently, it seems like you're living the dream life: a peaceful marriage, a loving husband, and beautiful children?

- My life has really changed completely after getting married. Before, I was used to a free life. My time in a day was mainly spent on work and taking care of myself. Now I prioritize taking care of my family. My husband and I work together, share housework and take care of the children, and there is not much time left for personal matters.

Especially after giving birth to my daughter, I felt as bewildered as I did when I was 24 years old when I gave birth to Bin. The circle of life seemed to repeat itself, but I myself had been upgraded, becoming more mature and skillful. Motherhood was also more interesting and easier.

The happy moment of MC Van Hugo's family when she gave birth to her second child in May. Photo: Character's Facebook

Postpartum confusion, you probably mean the changes after giving birth?

- Like many others, after giving birth to Vung, I became more sensitive. I often felt sorry for myself because my body was no longer as slim as before, and my health was also weaker. However, I was very lucky to have my husband by my side.

He was there to encourage and comfort me when I lost my milk supply. He never said harsh words or criticized my appearance, making me feel inferior. My husband also cared about my emotional changes and helped me take care of the children, so I could focus on taking care of Vung. Now, the baby is 6 months old, so my spirit and health have improved a lot.

MC Van Hugo and her husband have been married for 3 years but are still as romantic as newlyweds. Photo: Facebook character

Is that why your post-natal life has become easier: taking care of your child but still balancing it with social activities like connecting with friends and traveling?

- Actually, about 3 months after giving birth, I lost my milk supply so I couldn't breastfeed. My husband encouraged me that since I was already giving my baby formula, we should both take the opportunity to travel to help me feel more relaxed and less stressed.

He is also the one who schedules all the trips. On average, every month we discover new places. People often joke that we have been married for nearly 3 years but still look like newlyweds. I do not deny it because I always feel my husband's thoughtfulness and love, so I love him more and more.

What action of your husband touched you the most while raising your child?

- My husband and I stay up all night to take care of the baby. It seems simple, but only after giving birth can we understand how meaningful that support is. At night, everyone is tired and just wants to sleep. But he usually looks after the baby for 2 hours, then it's my turn. We have a clear division of labor so we both have time to rest. The post-birth difficulties pass very quickly. Thankfully, the baby sleeps very well now, and we don't have to stay up all night anymore, so my husband and I have more time to rest.

MC Van Hugo: "I am grateful to my husband and love his stepchildren." Photo: Character's Facebook

Completely cured by love

It can be seen that your family is very warm and harmonious, there is no situation of “your child, my child, our child”. Many people want to ask for your secret!

- Actually, there is no secret. Because I always love and appreciate life, I always find the relationships around me very positive and meaningful, and rarely have thoughts of hating anyone. I can give sincere love to children I do not know, let alone the children of the person I love.

I love the children very much, and use my love to influence each one, so they accept me very well. Even with my mother-in-law or my husband’s ex, I respect them very much and approach them sincerely, so there is no conflict.

For you, is love the factor that makes a marriage last?

- That's right! I think that a husband and wife need love and respect to live together. At that time, we always think of each other in everything we do. Therefore, my husband and I rarely argue or have conflicts. If there is a problem, no matter how small, we share it to understand and resolve it immediately, and rarely leave it until the next day. I must say that for a long time, my husband and I have not been angry at each other overnight. And luckily, we are very compatible, we can talk to each other all day without getting bored.

MC Van Hugo: "Love and respect are the secrets to keeping the fire of marriage burning." Photo: Character's Facebook

Love brings you peace, and is there anything else you haven't shared?

- Previously, I shared about my laryngitis. At that time, I decided to accompany the disease for a long time and possibly have to give up my MC career. However, in recent years, the disease has been completely cured. I find it very miraculous. It is as if when I am loved, the inner wounds are healed. Currently, I am gradually returning to my MC job because my health has fully recovered. I am very happy, as if I have just returned a treasure.

Love, health, the two have it all. So should the audience expect an official wedding, as a happy ending for the female MC they have always loved?

- Of course! That is our plan. It is expected to be held next year. I cannot reveal the specific time frame yet because we both want to invest and be as meticulous as possible. The wedding is also a private party, where we invite our closest friends, who have witnessed our love journey and share the joy with my husband and I.

Thanks for sharing!