Nam Em suddenly announced to 'give up the stage' after 8 years of working in the arts
"I have devoted 8 years of my life, I am tired, I have to give the field to someone else", Nam Em shared on her personal page amid the noise surrounding Bach Cong Khanh.
On the evening of December 13, on her personal Facebook page, Nam Em suddenly posted a long post revealing her current health condition. The female singer shared that there were many reasons why she felt tired and wanted to "give the stage to others" after 8 years of dedicating herself to art. Nam Em's confessions immediately attracted attention.
The singer wrote:"I really don't want to speak up at this time. But this is also my frustration. If I don't speak up, I'm treating my life badly.
1st: I have memory problems which are getting in the way of my life and I am really tired of it.
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Nam Em suddenly posted a status sharing about her current health situation. Photo: FBNV |
Second: I am very susceptible to wind strokes, that is why I always use essential oils. Many times when I am singing, I have difficulty moving and sitting. This is also a problem that I am quite tired of. Every time I get wind stroke, whoever gets it will know, sometimes it is difficult to talk and sing correctly and lose concentration. Many times I try too hard, sometimes I talk nonsense on stage so I have to withdraw before things go too far.
Third: My appearance has changed due to the use of many medications. My teeth often recede. I really want to fix everything to make it more beautiful, but my health does not allow it. And I need time to fully recover before I can do it.
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Nam Em received love from the audience when she focused on singing and doing art. Photo: FBNV |
4th: Lately, I have been very limited in accepting shows at tea rooms, because I know that if I keep using health as an excuse, it will affect the quality of the music night. This is also what I told Khanh that I do not want to accept more shows for fear of affecting it. I do not want to force others to endure me because of an unavoidable reason.
Thursday: I am also human, and will also have to go through the stages of life of birth - aging - sickness - death. I am not an angel or a saint. I cannot try to do things beyond my strength. My strength now is "thankfully" that when I am healthy, I sing very well and well. When I am tired, I have to endure. No matter how hard I try, I cannot force it.
So everyone is right. I should stay home and recuperate more. Take better care of myself. When I am well again, I will continue. But my family is not rich. I also do not have a big tree to hide behind, so as long as I can occasionally go on a light show to earn enough money for three meals a day, pay the rent, and raise my children, I am happy.
Through this, I also express my gratitude and thanks to the "four-leaf clover" family for walking together on the path we call youth. But everyone has their own life. I hope everyone will have their own life. Don't waste too much time on me. I can't stay with you forever.
So what I need to say has been said. I will not say it again. If you lose an artist named Nam Em. You still have Queen. Queen is yours. Feel free to express your dreams behind this mask. You will be free. I have also devoted 8 years of my life. I am tired, I have to give the field to others. I cannot stand here blocking everyone's way anymore. Go out to play occasionally to relieve my boredom. Earn some retirement salary!".
Below the post, Nam Em received many shares, sympathy and encouragement from the online community. Fans hope that she will maintain an optimistic spirit and be strong enough to overcome difficulties and health barriers to continue her singing career.
Nam Em clarifies recent scandals related to Bach Cong Khanh
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Bach Cong Khanh and Nam Em are always sweet and affectionate when appearing at music nights. Photo: FBNV |
In addition, Nam Em also spoke up to correct the noise surrounding Bach Cong Khanh during the recent past:"I would also like to add more about the words I said but were distorted by some people. Is Khanh your ideal type? I answered: "If I had to choose someone to be my husband, I would choose someone like Bach Cong Khanh. Because he is tolerant, kind and decent."
And I never said I loved Bach Cong Khanh and wanted to marry him. What I said and the way the clip was edited were taking things too far."
Nam Em - Bach Cong Khanh is a couple that has been enthusiastically "shipped" by fans over the past time. Not only do they work well together on music stages, they are also not afraid to show each other affectionate gestures and sweet eyes. However, neither of them has ever confirmed their relationship.
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Bach Cong Khanh acted "strangely" when Nam Em shared many things about him in the press. Photo: FBNV |
In recent days, social networks have been "stirred up" by rumors of a rift in the relationship between Nam Em and Bach Cong Khanh. It all started when the two "ignored" each other during the performance in Da Lat on December 9. The two had a duet but there were no more gentle handshakes or affectionate looks. Instead, Nam Em and Bach Cong Khanh each stood in a corner, looking in different directions and did not interact with each other.
Right after the show, Nam Em shared her first thoughts: "Let it go, everyone! Everyone is responsible for their own life. In the end, I want to contribute to art. I respect Khanh, but this path is no longer meant to be together. Well, let's have a new life. Be positive and optimistic."
Recently, netizens also discovered that Bach Cong Khanh's public friend list no longer includes Nam Em. The origin of the incident is said to be from when Nam Em publicly called Bach Cong Khanh her ideal model, only wanting to marry a guy like Bach Cong Khanh. However, Bach Cong Khanh still remained silent in the face of conflicting rumors.