Is adultery easy to forgive?

For many people, forgiving and loving someone who has betrayed them is difficult, like mending a cracked mirror. But for many people, having a crush on someone else is not too terrible and if the love is deep and strong enough, they can still forgive and love again from the beginning. So is it easy to forgive infidelity? This is a question that is not easy to answer.

Difficult but not impossible

For couples who have loved each other for many years, understand each other's personality, interests, lifestyle, work, family and relationships, if unfortunately one of them falls in love with someone else, forgiveness is very difficult. But it is not impossible. The difficulty is that when in love for a long time, the love for each other is not simply romantic love between a man and a woman, but also the habit of being together, trust and responsibility, so once trust is lost, it is very difficult to regain. But also because of loving each other so much and for so long, when the other person falls in love or likes someone else, the other person cannot easily forget and let go.

Betrayal is hard to forgive. But depending on the case, it is still possible to “consider” and give a chance to the person who made the mistake.

Forgive when the other person is sorry and sincerely wants to rebuild the old relationship. (illustrative photo)

For example, a “sinner” who commits a minor crime for the first time, accidentally and without calculation, also feels wronged and guilty towards their lover. The “sinner” knows how to repent, knows how to repent and sincerely wants to rebuild the old relationship.

The other person who has suffered pain and hatred will have to learn to forgive, forget the past, not pick on, criticize, or bring up the past over and over again. Giving up a relationship is easy, but nurturing it is difficult. Betraying, then coming back, and starting over is a difficult process, not every couple can do it.

The important thing if two people want to get back together is that one side feels sorry and with the most sincerity tries to restore trust and love for the other, and the other side should try to forgive, give them a chance to prove their feelings. And after getting back together, both learn to love, nurture and believe in their love.

Be decisive when you feel hurt and no longer trust the other person.

For those who have had a "criminal record" of adultery, and are lucky enough to be forgiven, there is still something unsettling in the hearts of both. The relationship suddenly becomes more rugged than before.

It's best to be decisive when talking to each other, mostly about the past, it's better to be hurt once than to be hurt again. Having been betrayed once, people often carry doubts. Therefore, trust is the most important factor when both decide to forgive each other. Betrayal can be forgiven, but trust is lost, is it difficult to regain?

Trust is the most important factor when both decide to forgive each other...

The key to this issue is how the two people resolve the crisis. You should only forgive the betrayer when you are no longer affected by what he or she has done. Tormenting and criticizing each other with every word and action will not satisfy anyone's bad mood.

Love is helping each other become better. Once you accept forgiveness, you should be sincere and treat each other well. Even if you have forgiven the betrayal, if you still cannot get rid of the ghost of the past, you should be decisive and not linger any longer.

If you forgive once, but betray a second time, then goodbye and never see you again.

According to Phunuonline