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Phuoc Anh DNUM_AEZAHZCACE 09:03

Scrolling through Facebook this week, it seems like there is no news as “hot” as the high school graduation exam. Before the exam, there is excitement; during the exam, there is anticipation and worry; and now that the exam is over, there is also a lot of waiting for the scores.

Every year there is a graduation exam, every year the whole society is filled with anxiety. Of course, every family has children and grandchildren who have gone through this "burning" period, 12 years of studying hard, just waiting for an exam...

Many years of reporting on the high school graduation exam, standing outside the school gate for the entire 2 days of the exam, interviewing parents and students, I witnessed so many drops of sweat, so many bright smiles, so many hesitations when asked "Can you do the test?", and so many tears too.

There are candidates who enter the exam room with confidence, but when they leave the school gate, they feel dejected and depressed. There are young people who jump for joy because they are lucky to have done well on the exam, but there are also those who are tearful because the exam is beyond their ability. There are parents who are understanding, waiting for their children with cheerful faces; but there are also those who harshly criticize their children for neglecting their review, losing points on easy questions. The exam hall is colorful, with colorful emotions.

More than 1 million candidates nationwide have completed their memorable "passing the gate" exam with smiles and tears, the only thing left now is to wait for the results. The exam results not only reflect the quality of the 12 years of study of the students, but also serve as the basis for admission to universities. Therefore, except for a few candidates who are eligible for early admission and are admitted to their desired universities, the majority are still anxiously waiting for the day when the results are announced to decide the next path of their lives.

The next path, who doesn't want it to be bright and radiant. Getting into a top university. Getting accepted to your first choice as you wish. But, sometimes, who knows, the result might not be what you want, not what your parents want.

I used to receive desperate inbox messages: Sister, I failed the university entrance exam!; I am a failure; My parents said they were disappointed in me… Many times, even though I am someone who regularly provides psychological counseling for difficult cases and constantly writes articles to ease the stress of candidates during each exam, I still cannot help but choke up.

We feel so sorry for them, why don't we give them the right to fail, why don't we help them see other doors - besides the door to university, why don't we tell them: it's okay, this is just one exam among countless exams in life?

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You have just turned 18, 18 short years of a long life. Ahead of you are countless choices: if not university A, then university B, if not university, then vocational school, if not vocational training, then go to work abroad, if not work abroad, then apply to be a worker, a small trader, a freelancer...

Being a college student is fun, but there is more joy in every profession, waiting for you to experience and discover. Never draw a circle for yourself to jump, never confine your life to just one environment, never think that that sparkling door is the only way into life.

When one door closes, another will open, and even wider, with opportunities looming that, if you are confident enough to seize them, will make you successful in your own way. There are many things that universities cannot teach you, but life can. In the world, there are hundreds of billionaires and famous people who did not go to university but still shine, especially in the current flat world era, where the opportunity to be rich and successful is shared equally among everyone.

If you fail the exam and fail the university entrance exam, it would be a lie to advise you not to cry and feel sad. Failure is sad, very sad, but when you are sad enough, stand up, open your heart and mind, calmly identify your strengths and weaknesses and your family's conditions, to find a direction that suits your abilities and circumstances.

The destination of life is probably the same for everyone, but the paths are countless. Youth is the most valuable capital of life, you who possess it, do not waste it, but tell yourself the word "Dare": dare to stand up, dare to do it again, dare to be strong, dare to commit, dare to challenge, dare to succeed.

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