Things to note when girls are in puberty

1. Avoid using whips

During puberty, girls begin to express their ego, so their self-esteem is very high. If parents shame their children when they make mistakes or use a whip in front of a crowd out of anger, the consequences are that the children will be more dissatisfied and difficult to manage. Moreover, when using a whip with children, parents lose the opportunity to be friends with their children, which is extremely important when raising children during puberty.

2. Scolding

No matter your child’s age, this is not an effective way to communicate with them. This is especially true when they reach their teens. When you start yelling, your child will shut down communication and not want to listen to you anymore.

Yet many parents still yell at their children over and over again. This may be because they feel frustrated that they can’t reach their children. If you feel this way, it’s best to wait until you feel calm enough to talk to your child more effectively.

3. Don't be too strict with your child's spending.

Many parents think that giving their children money too early will spoil them. Therefore, they strictly control their children's spending. When children ask for money, parents often ask them to say what they want to use it for, or to cut down on expenses if they make a mistake. This will make children uncomfortable and can easily have the opposite effect.

Girls in puberty are very interested in beauty. Therefore, if their parents do not satisfy their needs, they will borrow money from their friends or find ways to get the money they want, making them vulnerable to exploitation by bad people.

At this age, children are aware enough to understand the value of money. Instead of strictly controlling their spending, parents should explain to their children the value of money and age-appropriate spending. Each month, children should be given a certain amount of money so that they can make their own spending plan with that amount.

4. Don't try to be friends with your child by any means.

Don't try to be friends with your children, but care and spend more time with them, listen to and respect their opinions, give them the freedom to express their dreams... Just by doing that, you have become a great father and mother in your children's eyes.

5. Listen to your child

It is important to listen when your child talks. As a teenager, your child may not always open up to you. So you need to take every opportunity to talk to your child.

6. Do not limit your child's contact with the opposite sex.

Instead of forbidding, parents should let their children go out and interact with people so that they can gain life experience. The best way to protect children is to equip them with basic knowledge about self-protection skills, gender and safe sex, which is what parents should do.

7. Too strict with children

Being strict in teaching children during puberty is something that parents should do. Because only then will children not go astray and avoid the pitfalls of adolescence. However, being too strict or unreasonably forbidding children will have the opposite effect.

At this age, children's psychology is erratic and their self-esteem is very high, so parents should listen to and respect their opinions. When children make mistakes, they should point out their shortcomings and guide them on the right path.

Raising teenage girls is not too difficult, as long as parents know how to care, listen and respect their children, it will be easy to guide them on the right path.