Actress Than Thuy Ha speaks up about having children with many rich men

Origin ismodelThan Thuy Ha became famous from the fashion catwalk, once known as the national model. Then she moved to cinema and quickly gained a solid position thanks to her beautiful face, good acting with a series of impressive roles inThe Man Standing in the Wind, If There Is Tomorrow, The Path of Sin, Tears of Hatred...

The actress married a businessman in 2009. The two divorced after 2 years of living together due to conflicts and disagreements that arose while living together. Than Thuy Ha has raised her son Duy Anh alone for the past 8 years... However, after the divorce and giving birth to a second child without getting married, Than Thuy Ha has been continuously caught up in many false rumors.

Appear at the movie premiereKing of Bread -In her new TV series project, Than Thuy Ha confided more about her decision to have children as well as her love story.

Than Thuy Ha (left) at the premiere of the movie "King of Bread".

I was rumored to have a child with this tycoon and that tycoon.

- As a single mother, raising two children alone at the age of 42, does Than Thuy Ha face a lot of pressure in life?

I chose this path so I feel that raising children is a happiness. Actually, I planned to have a second child 2 years ago. I was well prepared physically, mentally and financially so there was no difficulty or pressure.

The first and second children are 10 years apart, so I had to be financially prepared before I dared to have a second child. Giving birth is easy, but raising and building a future for them is a process. As for the financial aspect, I am not worried. I even worry about sending my child to university.

Like other mothers, I worked and saved to provide the best future for my children, so that they would not be disadvantaged or feel inferior to their friends. I loved and pampered my children, but I did not teach them to expect everyone to pamper them. On the contrary, I taught them how to live and care for others.

Than Thuy Ha with her two children: Duy Anh (10 years old) and Hera (1 year old).

- You once shared that your first son didn't want you to remarry, so why did you decide to have another baby?

It was Duy Anh (Than Thuy Ha's son) who wanted me to have a second sibling. One time when we were in the car, Duy Anh held a globe and asked:“Do you see the similarities between me and this Earth?”I was surprised and did not understand, then my child said:“The Earth is all alone, it has no brothers or sisters, so I see myself as the Earth. I live alone, so now I want a sibling.”

This sentence made me think a lot and decided to have a second child. When I came to the father of the second child and decided to have a child, Duy Anh witnessed and accompanied my mother in this love.

-I kept wondering why she was so unconfident that she had to hide the identity of her current man?

I think this is my private matter. I have previously made public the identity of Duy Anh’s father, but there are men who do not want to make it public. However, whether they like it or not, I will keep my private life a secret. I need the audience to know and love me through my artistic products, not through personal matters.

I don’t want to sell my private life to promote my name. At this age, I need good, quality products, not to arouse curiosity in the audience with my private life. I don’t want to expose everything because then the audience will feel that the artist is no longer attractive. They won’t want to care or know more because they already know everything.

To be able to appear with the most beautiful appearance, Than Thuy Ha actively exercises every day but does not skip meals because she has to ensure her health to take care of her child.

- Women who have gone through a broken marriage often have a hesitant mentality. Is it because of the pain in your previous marriage that you don't want to move on?

I am not shy or afraid of anything, I just feel that marriage is not necessary. Right now, my lover and I are still normal like any other couple, he is still the father of my child, it's just that we are not married. I don't want to get married, I don't want to marry again, but the love is still there.

I feel like I don't trust myself, I don't believe that anyone will be able to indulge my personality for the rest of my life. Maybe I'm too strong. Usually women have to rely on men, the role of men is to protect. As for me, many times before I finish talking, I've already done it, like taking over the other person's role. I think men don't like that. Many times I want to change but I haven't been able to. When I can fix this personality and feel weak, needing a shoulder to lean on, I will take the next step.

- In life, there are many cases where half-siblings have disagreements. How do you educate your children so that they get along and feel equal love from their mother?

I am always alert and aware of the need to love my children equally, whether they are young or old. I want to share the responsibility of taking care of my younger sibling with my son, teaching him how to love and protect his younger sibling. So now, when Duy Anh comes home from school, he puts down his bag, washes his hands, and hugs his younger sibling right away.

Since Duy Anh was little, I have frankly explained to him that his parents no longer love each other and do not live together, but his parents still love him very much. I always create conditions for him to meet his father and his paternal family. Because I think that my child deserves to receive love from his father and paternal family, there is no reason to prevent it.

-Living in the worldentertainmentAfter more than 25 years, how do you feel about the rumors about you?

Actually, I have very few scandals, only the reputation of having a relationship with a rich man. Especially after the birth of my second child, there were rumors that I had a child with this rich man or that rich man. Many people even texted me and said:"Honey, people say your child is mine."I wonder how many rich fathers my child will have in the end.

People ask me why I never corrected the issue, but I think silence is the best way to solve the problem. Because the more I correct the issue, the more people think I have it. I don't live for public opinion, so I don't care. With my personality, I like to be quiet, I don't want to appease or please anyone.

Not afraid to act in hot scenes even though he has a family

- You recently participated in the movie "King of Baking" co-starring with Cao Minh Dat. Reuniting after more than ten years since the movie "Remaining Love", how was the interaction between the two of you?

AfterLove Remains, until now I have had the opportunity to act with Cao Minh Dat. To be able to act with Dat and Truong Minh Quoc Thai from young to old, for me that is a lucky thing.

They both supported me a lot, after all I was an amateur actor so I still had to learn more about acting. During the filming, I observed and learned their acting style, memorized it and applied it later.

Than Thuy Ha accepted to act in a movie right after giving birth to her second child.

- Women after giving birth often need time to rest and regain their strength, but why did you rush to accept the film? Many people commented that you rushed because you were afraid of "going out of fashion"?

I accepted this film before I gave birth. The crew and director often called to remind me and ask about me while I was still in the US, so after giving birth, I rushed back to Vietnam to be on time to film with the crew.

I have never felt that I had no place in this acting profession. In the past, I was in 3-4 films at a time. Even when Southern TV dramas were in decline, I never acted in less than 2 films. That was my joy and pride. Just over a year after giving birth, I was already in my 5th film.